The perfect guy only exists in your dreams.

However, once we find our perfect match we learn that with every imperfection they have, that is what draws us closer and makes them perfect in our own way.

Kinda rambled with that. I hope you guys catch my point.

God was alanis morissette in the movie Dogma

So the OP is saying don't judge a book by it's cover? Isn't that kinda what is being done? Just because a guy is built or a gal is a "barbie" (I hate that term btw) doesn't mean they are jerks. They get judged just like everyone else.

There are good and bad everywhere.

But looks are important. My preferences on looks might be odd to someone else. But why would I want to be romantically involved with someone I'm not physically attracted to? It's a combo of physical attract as well as emotional or mental attraction too.

Perfect is relative to each individual.

Balance is the key: attractiveness, intelligence, integrity and personality are all key parts to "someone's" perfect.

Yes, there are versions of the whole package; finding the right person for you is the challenge.

Exactly!!! He may not be perfect for anyone else but you - and you have him!!

or that he even exists?

I am so F'n tired of the "I want perfect this, or perfect that". You know, I can't tell you why women like me, or why a woman may think that I am "perfect" for her. I can look at myself and know I am far from being perfect. Hell, I am the least perfect person I know.

Last three women I dated, guys would walk up to me and ask, "How did you get with her?". They were implying that I wasn't "good enough" for her, and they were going on looks. I just laughed and said I had a big schlong. That shut them up. How did I end up with them? Well, they liked me....for me. And I liked them for who they were. And both myself and these ladies loved the imperfections we had. I mean...it is a total package right? You take the good with the bad.

You love me for my writing! Haha!

It's not about finding the perfect person, but creating a perfect
relationship.
Nobody's PERFECT, no matter how hard you try looking for Mr. Perfect, they will only live in your dream or in the fairytale.

Didn't Alanis Morissette sing a song about this?

he may not be perfect, but hes perfect for me....thats all I need...

if u really want a girl your gonna think shes perfect, if a gril really likes a guy shell think hes perfect even if hes an *******, experience will show u that, perfect is what u make it, so try not to blow it when u think u find that perfect girl. cuz u only get like one chance lol

Did women write it?

Were women on the 'committee' deciding what made it in to the book?


... just sayin

eh,i'm sticking to old used up hookers.....

I'll send em your way when I'm thru with em

My perfect guy exist only in romance novel ....

Yea - with all that moody stuff: (especially in the older book) - if there is some god thing - it's just got to be a woman ...