lol!!!!! i mean if someone emails you on a dating site and u looked at the profile... are so un attracted to then and dont really want to be mean? geesh and im not talking about on here lol or would of never wrote this! just curious if others have felt that way? and if so what do u do? avoid opening it even for a few days? then find out it was nothing? i dont know why i have felt that way before even being blunt i do not like to be mean!

As far as a prospective interest, no I've never been afraid to open a mail. Now there have been times that I have said something in the forums and someone messages me to privately comment on it, and I think to myself..."Oh shnikes what did I do?" Only to find out they agreed with what I said...

Now as far as having to turn someone down, I don't like to be mean either. I try to let people down by saying something like "Thanks for the sweet message but I am just here for friends and would be glad to get to know you on that level." Or something like that.

if i ever had an email the said buttons anywhere around it, i would be on cloud nine... and i wouldn't hesitate to open it either....

you said something negative? you seem to sweet for that...

I do have a side when the need arises.

i musta missed that memo...

You should've seen me on Yahoo tonight. Someone who hasn't messaged me in 4yrs messaged me and immediately wanted to cyber...it wasn't perty

you know.. i think u are one sweet girl! read your posts for a long time... always nice things to say! and u are funny too i like ya!! i cant say that if at the time i have something different in mind... or have that put down that im looking for other than friends..

oh like i never emailed u! or hesitated to do so! guess i wasnt talking about u huh? its not on here though!

coulda chatted a few minutes first, huh

I think about the only emails I get on here anymore are from people in the forums. Which is just how I like it anyway

all i can do is hope...lol

Right? I asked him what gave him the right to pick up after 4yrs with that crap and he said...."the love in my heart" yada yada yada I see your fingers moving but all I can read is *&^%&***(*^%$

lmao some of my best ones come from youngins!!!!!! im about falling outta my chair! just got one on here! i sooo love to laugh! seems some guys my age lose laughter.. really stinks... gotta love all ages for sure!! i went to a bar last weekend when i went traveling.. had the most fun with some early 20 crowd that all came in at the same time they were so fun.. full of energy, a big group of guys and gals.. made me laugh.. cheered me up a whole lot was so bored!!

roflmao!

Even when I was single, I didn't talk to that many people anyway. I am really just concentrating on getting my life back together.

But when I do chat, the guy has to be at least 25, because guys my age are GENERALLY way less mature than I am and I can't stand the games. High school ended 5yrs ago (for me).

email??????

well im staying on topic here.. is when a youngin emails me no matter what he looks like or what his profile reads i never fear opening it.. or being blunt lol.. but when a guy my age that looks ugh 20 yrs older and nothing attractive when i have on my profile.. dating.. i do fear opening it.. so was wondering if anyone else had that issue?.. i actually really dont know what i have on my profile here anymore..lol as what im looking for.. i know i put age limits in my essay so i may have changed it... there are immature people and over mature people but you can learn from all... no reason to shut people out from talking to them really. much to be learned from all ages.. or good laughs..