what is it with women i guess i should explain well im a nice guy i try to treat the woman that im with like gold but its hard for me cause im so far away from the women that i love and our circumstances make so she cant move closer to me well so when i have any free time i want to be on the phone with her and talk or what ever i just makes it seem to me like we r together with each other but yet i guess its mo much cause she left me and this isnt the first woman to leave me because of this i just feel like no matter what i do i cant make a woman happy enough to stay what ever idk some input from the ladies here would be greatly appreciated

let me tell u about most women man... the worse u treat em,the more they love u... it's their mentality..most women dig ******** for some reason.. and then they cry about and wonder why they being treated like ****... my advice bro find urself a woman that's gonna love u for u.. and only u.. and if she starts acting like a ***** towards u ..use her *** and dump her..man ..women like that ain't worth it

you know i tried the whole bein an ******* thing its just not who i am just cant bring myself to do it as the famos sayin goes nice guys finish last but then all i hear is how all the girls say all they want is someone to treat them good then when they get it they just leave anyway

So it sounds like you're doing the long-distance thing???? If so, let me tell you (as a woman who has been involved in long-distance romances) how difficult it is. A woman wants to feel you close.... she wants to feel your breath on her neck, your hand grazing her leg, your arm enveloping her. She wants you to look her in her eyes, to feel your lips, to feel your cheek, and your kiss. She feels safe with you near. It is very difficult to feel like you're in a relationship with someone who can never be there with you....who can never go with you to a friend's BBQ or a niece's birthday party. Regardless of how nice you are and how much you may fill her emotional needs, she wants your physical presence.

actually....we dont want @$$h0les.....sometimes it just takes us a little bit to realize that we want a nice guy that will treat us right....and doing the distance thing right off the bat isnt easy if youve been hurt before and havent built that trust with the other person

u said it brother..thing is u need to be a genuine *******,women can sense it, as for them saying they want a guy to treat em right,brother they don't know what they want themselves, they have a bunch of instincts and emotions that can change at any minute, trying to understand them is pointless..I look at it this way,if I see a girl nice genuine like.. I treat her good, though if I see she getting to comfortable I let her know right then and there... always need to keep a girl in check.. otherwise they tend to walk all over u if u let em..Now if I see she a genuine *****,then I am going to treat her like the ***** that she is and dump her sorry ***...

problem is when u do find a nice guy u tend to treat em like ****... see like I said u ladies don't really know what u want u might think u do,but u really don't lol ..

then how do u explain some women waiting for their men 10 years while their men is in jail in stuff...truth is if u really truly care about someone u'll do the long distance thing.. or even wait 10 years till ur man gets out of prison.. the rest is just excuses..

actually....we dont want @$$h0les.....sometimes it just takes us a little bit to realize that we want a nice guy that will treat us right....and doing the distance thing right off the bat isnt easy if youve been hurt before and havent built that trust with the other person


yes i could understand if this was a new relationship but the fact is we had a close on going relationship for 3 years prior to the marine corp and we were engaged to get married when all of a sudden she tells me she cant do it anymore

thank you venus

Dude you couldnt have it more backwards if you tried...you are such a lost soul.

Its all good Dragon...Im feelin ya across cyberspace. LDR'S are tough and get the better of the best of peeps. But things wont be this way forever, your life will change, or you will meet the one that can handle it. All I can say is, what a lucky lady she will be

again thanx for your support

Hear, FRIKKIN' HEAR. About time someone said it... -.-

I know some women can be twisted, and just plain don't do good, but WOW. -.- Guys like that are the reason that decent girls have to put up with feeling like crap about ourselves...

Hit her, too. Chicks love that.

well venus with all due respect I was talking about my generation of women, you are more of my parent's generation.. things were a bit different then I am sure.. more values..perhaps

nope never in my life have I raised a hand to a woman,or anyone who is weaker than me.. I tell ya in my past relationships i had plates thrown at me amongst other things lol .. I just leave .. but I would never hit a woman.. sure at times I felt like putting her head through a wall don't get me wrong.. but I'd never actually do it. worst thing I would just punch a wall a few times and go cool off somewhere..

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