Topic: does an initial overseas distance relationship is possible b
pondraq's photo
Mon 08/30/10 09:00 PM
Its possible as long as both are really serious about the relationship and meet at least once before deciding to get married.
i am looking for the same........

AndyBgood's photo
Mon 08/30/10 09:31 PM
Edited by AndyBgood on Mon 08/30/10 09:33 PM
I would say play it safe and mutually visit each other on both sides at least twice to make sure it is not infatuation. She should visit you in your country and you meet her in hers.

It helps to see if either of you can adapt to your cultural differences.

pondraq's photo
Mon 08/30/10 09:47 PM

I would say play it safe and mutually visit each other on both sides at least twice to make sure it is not infatuation. She should visit you in your country and you meet her in hers.

It helps to see if either of you can adapt to your cultural differences.


hmm quite an intelligent and practical advise, thanks sir

Thorb's photo
Tue 08/31/10 05:27 PM
Anything [almost] is possible

probable is another thing though

for me .... the answer is ... no. With out many visits for long periods of time.

msharmony's photo
Tue 08/31/10 05:34 PM

Its possible as long as both are really serious about the relationship and meet at least once before deciding to get married.
i am looking for the same........



make sure you are both IMMIGRATION eligible in the other ones home country before investing time and emotions,,,trust me on this one


I have been there and done that,, seven years of our lives GONE...and one child later,,,,and he is not permitted to live in the USA