Totally agree,I am divorced and much happier.

In my opinion, if you are comfortable with each other and kind to each other you should stay together for the children's sake. Divorce is much harder on them then you may realize and it imagine how you will feel when your wife dates and they have a step dad. Who may or may not be an okay guy with your kids.

Hi I have a different delimma my husband and I have been married for 5 years but have been in a relationship for almost. 12 years. This year after his 31 st birthday he decided that he needed space to develop his love with another woman I am a very religious person so I talked with my pastor who thought it was a joke he has known us both most of our lives and never expected this from my husband but that is another. story long story short now my husband says he is torn but does not want to leave his family. I have spoken with this woman several times and it seems as if she does not have any morals (let's face facts and then think about it) although she was raised with the same beliefs as we were. I have been apologized to so many times I am tired of the phrase "I'm sorry". What should I do please help?!!?!?!

Ok.Im not married and I may not have children.So.Im speaking here as a woman and a youth worker.As a woman.I would say that in experience,no woman wants second rate love and desearves only the best for herself and her children.As a youth worker.I would say as always that happy parents make happy children.The end choice will always be between yourself and your wife but I think you alraedy know the answer.

Hey.Whats with all the negativity.Bi polar isnt the end of relasionships.Sure its difficult at times but,with the right kind of person Im sure you will find someone.Your a good looking guy.I too have Bi polar and Im doing fine.Lots of offers.Just havent found the right one.Good Luck.

Why is it that after being married for sometime that you have the urge to be with other women. I like women and sometimes wonder what it would be like with someone else.

Everyone deserves to be loved unconditionally. Being divorced myself, I can tell you I deserve to be first in my partners life NOT 2nd or 3rd. If someone is not sure if they should be with you, you need to cut your losses (Yeah I know easier said than done) and move on. Good Luck

sounds like it's all about sexual attraction. add another person instead of ruining a friendship and giving up 15 yrs. she might like the idea!!

Try seperating from each other once a quarter for a week or two

You are lucky!
At least you are best friends. You should be after 15 years. either that or wanting to kill each other.

The infatuation and lust in any relationship is going to cool off.
Relationships, like my parents 27 year marriage (she died),
last because the two have become best friends.
(they enjoy each other's company)

Most find they can't stand to be around each other.
You're lucky, and should enjoy the time you have together.

The grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Find a way!

P.S.

There is a reason why most marriages today end in divorce.