Topic: relationships
blondi66's photo
Thu 08/26/10 12:09 PM
? what time span would you consider from going from like to love in a relationship

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Thu 08/26/10 12:13 PM
I did not think, you could put a time limit, on love.

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Thu 08/26/10 12:16 PM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Thu 08/26/10 12:17 PM
There are no 'This Is Love' and 'This Is Like' signs to tell you where the boundaries are ...

I love you.

See ... ? It can happen that fast ...

Dragoness's photo
Thu 08/26/10 12:55 PM

? what time span would you consider from going from like to love in a relationship


I actually believe that we should allow ourselves time to discern exactly what we are feeling. Lust is a powerful emotion. Also being on the rebound causes all kinds of "false" love feelings.

There is nothing wrong with taking it slow. Give it six months and see how things stand. By then if you are having a lust driven thing it will be dying down by then.

This just comes from me moving too fast in the past and ending up in a mess.

I now want to have a year at least under my belt of spending time together and interacting before we make any commitment.

Wish you well.

blondi66's photo
Thu 08/26/10 01:27 PM
thank you for the insight...wish you well also

Dragoness's photo
Thu 08/26/10 01:28 PM
flowerforyou

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Thu 08/26/10 01:42 PM
I think it varies from one situation to the next....all I can tell you is I'm usually done after about 90 days.


Dodo_David's photo
Thu 08/26/10 03:18 PM
The maturity of the people in the relationship will be a factor in how quickly things move.

My late wife and I were married less than 6 months after meeting each other, and we were together until she passed away.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Thu 08/26/10 08:23 PM
When they show up on your door step with there bags laugh laugh

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Thu 08/26/10 08:31 PM
zero to fifty in 6.2 seconds..depending on the kiss....smooched

Goofball73's photo
Thu 08/26/10 09:08 PM

When they show up on your door step with there bags laugh laugh


Logical.....and correct!laugh

Monier's photo
Thu 08/26/10 11:00 PM

? what time span would you consider from going from like to love in a relationship


the longer you wait the better.

remember Forrest Gump's saying 'Life is like a box of chocolates'