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      circumstances would you consider having sex on a first date? is it strictly a no-no for you, or is it something unlikely but possible, or quite likely if it's the "right" person, or definately cause you're just in the mood for it?
     
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        Kings_Knight
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      Why is this same question posted in two different forums ... ? 
     
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     cause it was moved  | 
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      I guess never for me.  I have to feel I know the person a bit first.
     
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      Definite no for me.  I can't know someone well enough in one evening to decide to have sex with him.  This way there are no "Oh God what was I thinking" moments!
     
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      i would need to know the person good before we had sex
     
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      what if you knew the guy real well on the internet ??
     
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      I'm going to go against the grain here.  If it's like this...we been talking a while.  I share my life, he shares his.  We are grown ups....I'm going for it.  
     
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      Friends with benes works for this kind of "just horny" situation.  You know them well and nobody gets hurt by it.
 
  Meeting a stranger is not the way to go though. Too risky.  | 
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      Absolutely not. Never believed in hook-ups, friends with benefits, casual sex, etc. I have to be in an actual relationship that has mutual commitment and looks, for all intents and purposes, like it's going to be long term.
     
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      ill say this..... no!  although it has happened before... in the far past..... what an idiot i was too!
     
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      I used to for different reasons. Mostly because I just want to and without expectations of a 2nd date.
 
  I don't feel this way anymore. I need a deeper connection. Now that I am using the internet as another means to meet people, I am actually overly cautious now. I want to make sure the person is who they say they are – and not some big ‘ol lying tater tot.   
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      back in the 80s, a few drinks, a line or two and i was good to go..now a days...well...as long as ive got fresh batteries, it isnt a concern anymore....
 
    
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      deeper connection  
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     back in the 80s, a few drinks, a line or two and i was good to go..now a days...well...as long as ive got fresh batteries, it isnt a concern anymore....   
Oh! That reminds to add batteries to my shopping list!   
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      BOB  
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      deeper connection  
  
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