I had an amazing date with someone I met on here last week. We got along really well and had a lot of fun. He asked if I wanted to have a 2nd date, which I did, so we planned one for next week. I haven't heard from him since the date, and he hasn't answered my calls or texts. It seems like he is avoiding me, and I don't know why. I assume that the 2nd date is off because he hasn't called. He said that he really likes me and wanted to continue dating... why is he ignoring me? It's been almost a week.

why worry... move on to the next one if he don't call or answer you.
maybe his wife came back early or something. or he could be in jail.
but either way, don't cry over spilt milk, there's a lot more guys out there.

I'm sorry he is being rude to you. Move on.

He is obviously immature and doesn’t know how to handle himself (with courage) in saying he is not interested. Why he asked for a second date is a mystery; however, many people do this to avoid confrontation or to give the other person a false sense of security before ending the first date. It's easier for them to leave on a happy note than to say they aren't interested.

No one deserves this type of treatment. I wish you well - and just know that there are guys that will not treat you this way.

Looks like a red flag to me hes prob married either way hes a jerk...runaway like your A** is on fire

He most likely was not truthful with you

what went well for you might not have really gone well for him

but not answering in any case is just plain rude on his part

gimme his #

let Tammy give him a call!! Lol

I know I should move on, but I haven't had a connection with anyone else like I had with him. We kissed for a while and it was amazing. I know he's not married, when he told me his name and where he worked I looked him up to make sure he was legit. I found out quite a bit about him, and nothing was bad.

Either way he lied to you about the second date Doll, So he is what he is...do YOU want that?

He moved on, you should too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_sakTBbg-o&feature=related

--The ever-offensive, blunt, and not so coy...FearandLoathing.

Just the same it doens't really matter. For one reason or another it's not going to happen. Just realize that it's HIS LOSS and move on to someone else. You may think you're not going to find someone as good as him but that's a pretty common feeling and it's always wrong. You'll find more attraction some place else, just have faith.

YOU felt all warm and gooey
You felt it went well

if a man felt the same your phone would be ringing off the hook!! Is it?

he'd be telling you over and over he loved the date and wants more!! Is he?

Sometimes we women live a fairy tale

chaulk it up and move on

and like I said baby. Gimme his #. I'd have fun dating this one!

not just women...

Holy crap, someone found a date from here

gotta happen SOMETIMES

Back in April, I had a date with a chick who told me that she "Had an awesome time" and she "Wanted to hook up again". So, I called her the next night to make plans and left a voice mail. Never heard back from her and so, after two days of not hearing back from her, I just dropped it and moved on. It sucks when it happens, and why people lie about it (I guess to be nice and not have to say, in person, that they wouldn't want to go out again) is beyond me. If I don't feel a connection, then I aint going on another date. Oh well. This is just how alot of men and women are, so you have to deal with it. People just can't honestly say how they feel. It is easier to lie and then avoid.

Yup ... it happens

LOL (not laughing at you)

That's the story of my life with women...hell they even meet me 2 or 3 times and tell me they want to talk about a relationship and that I'm nice, smart, pretty, bla bla bla

I MAKE THE MOVES even after they say that...so eventually I wait for them to put a bit of energy into it right, ITS ONLY NORMAL

They disappear

If I were any smarter I'd be gay but...that's not in the cards...

I'm a dancing banana looking for some ... MERENGUEEEEEE

Maybe he sensed you were the type of person to look him up without his consent ...

He's ingnoring you because he isn't interested. Plain and simple. Think about it... for the sake of someones feelings, it far less hurtful to ignore than it is to hear the truth.

The truth hurts.

And so, the Earth doesn't stop spinning.

So what...?

thanks for all the replies, everyone. i hate that he lied to me, i really thought everything went well. i wish he had the balls to be honest to me instead of just ignoring me, but oh well whatever. the right one's out there somewhere and it wasn't him.