I have in the past...The bad tends to outweigh the good...Now only of I
already know them...BUT I am only here for friends so I can be
selective!!!!

they NEVER send email bobby....they just guess you id and hope for the
best.......

when I ask why they didnt just contact me at JSH they say they want to
talk on yahoo. Vauge ansers and a lot of bull****.......if they had
contacted me here, I could at least see a profile. But they don't have
one. They are not members, they are trolls that come into the site and
try to get people to talk to them on yahoo......not exactly sure what
this one wanted since I was yanking his covers and telling him it was
rude to contact someone this way.....he stopped talking. He knew he
didnt have a stupid person on his hook.!!!!!!

I only activate my IM if someone I want to talk to is online...

I never do that

I just let on that its a man and say something along the lines of ok
buddy glad you think my wife is hot but she is not up for grabs and I
don't share they usually stop iming me then hehehe mean aren't I?

I only accept IM's if they have emailed me first.. there are a lot of
creepy IM's.........

nobody IM me

Thanks everyone. Not only is this a problem for those bothered by the
harassing IM's but it seems it might be the reason some more honorable
IM's are being turned down.

I'll post the findings, maybe some guys out there think they are being
turned away personally, not knowing that it's not about them.

I have gotten some IM's from people I haven't seen or talked to myself,
I don't answer them.If we have talked in email or the forums first and
gotten to know a little about them, maybe, but out of the blue FORGET
ABOUT IT.

thats why i have my ims off