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Topic: Super Mario explains relationships to the guys
Aries151's photo
Mon 07/26/10 07:41 PM


AndyBgood's photo
Mon 07/26/10 07:45 PM
Mario's wisdom is profound!

Monier's photo
Mon 07/26/10 08:45 PM
That about covers it. So True.

jlong931's photo
Mon 07/26/10 08:56 PM
that is hilarious

s1owhand's photo
Mon 07/26/10 09:04 PM
Freedom is the ultimate goal, and the only reason to make money is to buy time.

Making money must be amusing, and if one is rich, one meets a better class of women. These precepts have guided my life.

drinker

Dan E. Mayers

Monier's photo
Mon 07/26/10 09:16 PM
Edited by Monier on Mon 07/26/10 09:27 PM

Geniee's photo
Mon 07/26/10 10:37 PM
To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.

mattsk1's photo
Tue 07/27/10 10:19 AM

To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


It is difficult for a man to feel self confident when he feels inadeqate. Time after time we here women say "I love a confident man!" We are competive and feel that we need to be equal or better than the one we persue. Yet when we do this we loose perspective with the whole point in getting into a relationship in the first place, to be accepted and loved by another. When the other loves your money and/or your toys they are in a relationship with those things and not the person.

gstaats7938's photo
Tue 07/27/10 10:45 AM
now this is hilarious!!

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 11:10 AM


To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


It is difficult for a man to feel self confident when he feels inadeqate. Time after time we here women say "I love a confident man!" We are competive and feel that we need to be equal or better than the one we persue. Yet when we do this we loose perspective with the whole point in getting into a relationship in the first place, to be accepted and loved by another. When the other loves your money and/or your toys they are in a relationship with those things and not the person.


So very correct we like confidence.... if men can not have confidence with out money then it becomes our fault somehow? Love it.

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 07/27/10 02:05 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 07/27/10 02:11 PM



To anyone who feels this is true...consider that you may be dating the wrong women. Just a thought.


It is difficult for a man to feel self confident when he feels inadeqate. Time after time we here women say "I love a confident man!" We are competive and feel that we need to be equal or better than the one we persue. Yet when we do this we loose perspective with the whole point in getting into a relationship in the first place, to be accepted and loved by another. When the other loves your money and/or your toys they are in a relationship with those things and not the person.


So very correct we like confidence.... if men can not have confidence with out money then it becomes our fault somehow? Love it.


A man with a part time job or a low paying job has much less confidence than those who make a nice surplus with a good job. That's why you won't see millionaires signing up to mingle or any dating sites.

I realized a long time ago, that It's not me who is misplaced here, but pretty much all the women. They are looking for somebody, who doesn't even go to dating sites to begin with.
So yeah..I would say roughly about 80% of the women are looking for a relationship on a dating site, but none of the guys really fit their idea. (hint: they are not on any dating sites) There are some who finally drops their high expectations and more open minded or more understanding and they get that happy ending of settling with a guy.

So I talk to women on dating sites for the point of discussing things and entertainment....the idea of considering them as someone to be in a relationship doesn't really crosses my mind, since I'm convinced that neither me neither other guys with similar circumstances are having big chances. Lust yes..but it's an idea about me they like..which I am not. And meeting in person, the idea is gone and they have the raw-real-deal right front of them, who might be far off from the imagination the women have created about him.

OKCUTIE67's photo
Tue 07/27/10 02:19 PM
yawn Any other women getting tired of this whole "whoa is me I'm not rich and therefore can't get a woman" theme? explode

Couldn't possibly be your attitude that is driving them away??? Hmmm??? whoa

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 07/27/10 02:30 PM

yawn Any other women getting tired of this whole "whoa is me I'm not rich and therefore can't get a woman" theme? explode

Couldn't possibly be your attitude that is driving them away??? Hmmm??? whoa


There is nobody to "drive away" here on mingle hon. :wink:

RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/27/10 02:30 PM
hot classy women are easy, i'm one of their victimsbigsmile

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Tue 07/27/10 03:15 PM
Edited by Shaggy_ on Tue 07/27/10 03:18 PM
Okay, I do not have a very well paying job, and all I have to say is, its not how much you have, how much you make, but how you spend it and if you spend it wisely. You can be rich and miserable cause just because you have money dosen't mean you have class. It means you spend your time making money and expect everyone to respect you for it. I have a job I like, and have a life that I love; But there is nothing in my way that is going to take my confidence away. woo, your with mom and dad. okay in this person situation, so what? They haven't pissed them off enough that they want them out of the house, or know that they are working on it and are willing to wait for the time that they can get out on their own. But if they aren't going to take the time and effort to do such a thing then their loss. I'm confident that with what I have now I can work on to getting my life on track cause I work and have a life I can live in my spare time. That's enough for me, I have a band I can pursue my hobby with and get out from the rock I live under. That's what I look forward to and I'm not rich B*tch. I'm wealthy, I can do what I like everyday with out spending a dime, and I'm fine with that.

bigsmile smokin Quite confident smokin bigsmile
Mario Fail; Shaggy; 1

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 03:45 PM
I give up Atlantis... you come here and ask questions and throw out your theories but you are never receptive to any feedback that doesn't mirror your own sentiments. Why ask when you are so sure you already know the answer?

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Tue 07/27/10 03:49 PM

I give up Atlantis... you come here and ask questions and throw out your theories but you are never receptive to any feedback that doesn't mirror your own sentiments. Why ask when you are so sure you already know the answer?


Hey, it's not even my topic!


Why ask when you are so sure you already know the answer?


Oh..I'm not sure..just waiting for someone to give me a serious challenge. :wink:

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 03:52 PM


I give up Atlantis... you come here and ask questions and throw out your theories but you are never receptive to any feedback that doesn't mirror your own sentiments. Why ask when you are so sure you already know the answer?


Hey, it's not even my topic!


Why ask when you are so sure you already know the answer?


Oh..I'm not sure..just waiting for someone to give me a serious challenge. :wink:


I don't see that ever happening since you are so sure you're already right.

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Tue 07/27/10 03:58 PM
Myka, I think Atlantis likes to push your buttons. You are intelligent, eloquent and forthright. He digs it and thrives on your responses.

Atlantis, you like to poke the cat or women in this case. For some reason, you enjoy the challenge of riling them. You are attractive, articulate and really can do better than rile women, why not try to challenge both genders.

You're horescope for today brought to you by the letter "M".

msmyka's photo
Tue 07/27/10 04:05 PM
I just think it's very presumptuous for guys to think they know how all women are based on their own experiences. The part of the equation that they seem to miss is THEMSELVES. Their experiences with women are derived from they way THEY interact with them.... it's cool guys just blame it all on us so your ego can remain in tact.

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