Topic: truth or consequences
bedlum1's photo
Sun 07/25/10 04:46 PM
so i'm just wondering why some people aren't so honest about themselves on their profile.
when did average or a few extra pounds turn into heavy set?
or any of the other so called white lies people tell each other..
.....then.....they meet for real...
how do they expect someone to react to being deceived?
honesty in EVERYTHING is essential i think.
just be yourself and be fine with it...don't lie to hook someones attention because your not going to end up happy that way.(more than likely just hurt more)
i am me and that's who i am.....so people........just be you,drinker drinker drinker or you might not like the consequences:wink:

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:07 PM
Did you recently have a bad experience, Jeff?

I've been lucky and only met a couple of guys that fibbed on their profiles; mostly about their height and body type.

It sucks but we just move on drinker

bedlum1's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:13 PM

Did you recently have a bad experience, Jeff?

I've been lucky and only met a couple of guys that fibbed on their profiles; mostly about their height and body type.

It sucks but we just move on drinker
a few friends got some surprises...lol...
but im just saying "be honest, be ok with you".......((((melody)))))

michiganman3's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:18 PM
Wait.....where's Bob Barker?

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:20 PM
I don't get lying. People will find out eventually, right? I think some that lie think the person will over look the lie after getting to know them online. I'm the opposite. I don't take lying lightly and I view it as they have deceived me from the word go.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:26 PM

Wait.....where's Bob Barker?


I'll take what's behind door number 3!!

Wait, that's Monte Hall! slaphead :laughing:

MelodyGirl's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:26 PM


Did you recently have a bad experience, Jeff?

I've been lucky and only met a couple of guys that fibbed on their profiles; mostly about their height and body type.

It sucks but we just move on drinker
a few friends got some surprises...lol...
but im just saying "be honest, be ok with you".......((((melody)))))


(((Jeff))) flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:28 PM
I tell the truth!!

Don't pretend anything

ya read it

that's exactly what ya get!!!:heart:

michiganman3's photo
Sun 07/25/10 05:30 PM
Edited by michiganman3 on Sun 07/25/10 05:32 PM


Wait.....where's Bob Barker?


I'll take what's behind door number 3!!

Wait, that's Monte Hall! slaphead :laughing:


Hey I'd be happy with Bill Cullen.



bedlum1's photo
Sun 07/25/10 07:00 PM

I tell the truth!!

Don't pretend anything

ya read it

that's exactly what ya get!!!:heart:
:banana: flowers :thumbsup:

bedlum1's photo
Sun 07/25/10 07:52 PM

I don't get lying. People will find out eventually, right? I think some that lie think the person will over look the lie after getting to know them online. I'm the opposite. I don't take lying lightly and I view it as they have deceived me from the word go.
exactly!!!!:thumbsup:

michiganman3's photo
Sun 07/25/10 08:05 PM
I was seeing a gal before I signed up here, turns out she had a profile here.....

We didn't do anything that she said she liked to do.
Drinks "Occasionally" every time I was with her she had more than a couple under her belt.

Another gal "a few extra lb's" and "more to love" had me by about 100 lb's. (I weigh 200 lb's)


Like I wasn't going to notice or something.

msmyka's photo
Sun 07/25/10 08:07 PM
I try to be overly upfront. I tell guys I got some meat on me so if they like skinny girls I'm not for them lol

bedlum1's photo
Sun 07/25/10 08:10 PM
Edited by bedlum1 on Sun 07/25/10 08:18 PM

I was seeing a gal before I signed up here, turns out she had a profile here.....

We didn't do anything that she said she liked to do.
Drinks "Occasionally" every time I was with her she had more than a couple under her belt.

Another gal "a few extra lb's" and "more to love" had me by about 100 lb's. (I weigh 200 lb's)


Like I wasn't going to notice or something.
roflrofl jkrofl