Upon seeing plenty of women's profiles this was the most common statement I have found:

-I don't just want sex, I am looking for lover relationship

or

-If you are looking for sex , look elsewhere

or

- If you are a player, I got nothing for you.

or

- I am not looking for a once-a time sexual encounter.

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Now...let me ask this....Is it really that bad out there? Are most of the guys are looking for a sexual encounter but not a relationship?
I mean, just reading many of the profiles, it gives the impression that every women is continuously molested by people who just want to screw them and that's it.

Hmmm? Is that how it is?

Bad enough. 70% of the guys I've actually had email here wanted a quickie or some such thing. One guy pestered me through 4 emails that I might like it... Finally blocked him.

It almost seems like the one nighters or f•ckbuddy thing is the only thing happening.

Their all looking for Ms. Right, in the meantime they'll take
Ms. Right for a night...

So if they are..does that mean, that women out there looking for "Mr. Right for one night" , since otherwise most guys would give up if they wouldn't be encouraged somehow.

its not even actual sex. they are completely happy with a dirty picture or talking dirty. neither of which i am interested in. i think over the internet its easier for them to say absolutely vulgar things. because i dont hear these same things when i am out at the club or at the coffee bar.

I'm looking for crazy wild sex, but with the same man over and over again. Hey you....how ya doing?

Oh certainly there's women that are into that. Either because they're perfectly happy doing it or they're so desperate for attention or affection they'll take what they can get.

I don;t think that is true everywhere Atalntis, but it is true ITT - we get bothered cotinuously for anonymous sex online. And I am not really talking about the guys from the forums - whether people cyber, or meet in person - up to them - I'm talking about guys where there is no previous friendship from the threads....or any where else

Yup.Online not place to find the 1 ! I find them in the meat departement when I do my groceries Seriously

^^ I wanna shop where she shops

I think it may be as bad as you indicated. I have known many a friend and girlfriend who were complete "Freak Magnets" through no fault of their own and I am amazed at some of the stories they have told me.

There is a woman in L.A. who even blogs about it.
http://diaryofafreakmagnet.blogspot.com/

There are a lot of dirt bags out there.

They also don't want......

Dude with drama.
Dude who speak and write correkly....(Damn it.....correctly)
Dude who has a big schlong.
Dude who has all his teeth.


I mean. Chicks be wanting alot man. ALOT!!!

(Raises hand) I would like to volunteer for this position.

Out of 5 messages, I can guarantee 4 are talking about their "size" and how they want to interact with me.

Think you can handle it?

Hmmmmmm. Give me like six weeks of doing hardcore pilates and I will get back with ya.

if you are just lookin for sex then move along...
unless you are really really really good!!!

really really really!!!!!!!?

And a huge wallet.

Or at least a job.

Yes, there are lots and lots of guys out there looking for sex. They obviously have no idea how to go about getting it. If they did, they'd realize actually talking to a woman like a real person is much more likely to get them what they're looking for, rather than straight up asking for sex.