Is it really that bad that a woman has kids froma previos relationship

Ive never had that problem. In today's day and age and especially at my
age, most but not all have children. I'm a package deal......no man is
worth it if they don't accept your kids.

Kids are just little people!!! Not something you can just throw
away.

tell the truth up front, if he really wants you then he has to take on
your kids. They are part of you and as such should be packaged as
one.

i think, to be honest, it is a problem
some guys shy away when they know you have kids
living at home with you
just my own experience

The man who rejects my kids rejects me...I would never have anyone in my
life that didn't accept my kids and there would never be a choice
between the 2...My kids would always win!!!!!

I havent had a problem. Its a bonus deal 2 to love ...instead of 1

Twizzler...

I agree with BOTH Bypsy & Bonny. How could a man consider having a
relationship with you and not consider the fact that you hav children.
How shallow is he, if he is like that??

I hope you find what your looking for......

so sorry.....Gypsy

just saying there are guys out there
and some of them pretend
be careful!

I love kids.

Especially deep fried.

The younger the more tender.

Jonathan Swift.

and he has been the only guy to post!

Yes I have a step-father like that...He's a good pretender...BUT he
slips and lets his true colours show every now and then...good thing we
kids are adults...BUT it's the grand-kids I worry about!!!!!!

well what do you think carebear????

Its a matter of personal choice for a man or a woman to be with someone
who has kids, it doesn't make them bad unless they mislead you to get
what they want. For me its never been an issue, One thing that had
always bothered me is when someone refers to their children as
"Baggage", all children are a blessing and should be treated as such

I have custody of my kids and they live with me so I get it all the time
from women. I think its great if they have anything against children
there not for me.



Party on, I say

Well the reason I dislike women who have kids is I would like to be a
dad some day & those wouldnt be my kids so thats why I try to shy away
from women who have kids but if I really started to like someone then I
wouldnt mind I could deal with it but thats just my two cents

it shouldn't make a difference if a man or a women has kids from another
relantionship. i know people have there prefence but you shouldn't not
talk to someone because of that, you should give them a try,,,everyone
deserves a chance. you never know that "mr or mrs right" could be the
one but you let go because they have kids. I have 4 beautiful daughters
and i come as a package deal if you want me my kids come with it....if
you don't want to talk to me because i have kids, well that that's there
loss....not mine....

Oh and Twizzler22 welcome to jsh





And Twizzler22 you just have not met the right one yet.


Never give up never surrender

There are men out there who do like kids and have no problems getting
involved with some one who has kids from a previous relationship.It just
takes time to find them, if they are worthy they will accept the fact
you have kids and won't give you any crap about it, they will take the
time to know both you and your kids.Just be selective because they are
your children and if he can't be good to your kids he can't be good to
you.

I once met a woman I really liked, we wound up living togther, she had a
2 year old son. They left when he was 3 1\2 it tore my heart out.