hey, I went to physical therapy yesterday and my regular therapist was out (fri. her last day anyway) so I worked with this really cute new therapist I'd never seen before. She was really flirty and playful and we hit it off really well; she even said she was gonna ask about getting me switched to her. Above all though there was 1 thing she did that really made me wonder. She was putting something on my wrist and had my hand pressed hard against her breast. I'm not sure whether to take that as a hint or not...maybe that was just the easiest way to put it on and she didn't care if I touched her breast?? but it wasn't necessary at all and in my experience when a woman has pressed or brushed her **** against me it's cause they liked me and I've had fem. friends not want me to look at them cause they werent wearing a bra lol so I'd really curious to see what other women think about pressing a guys hand against their tit. Was it intentional or did she just think nothing of it?

My dentist (cute blond polish woman in her 30s) usually just presses her boobs against my arm and my face. She is married. For me, going to the dentist is almost like going to a strip bar. I don't think she wants anything from me, maybe in her mind..maybe not..but sure as hell I don't bother me what she does.

If your hand was pressed above her breasts, but on the chest, I would think nothing of it. If she had it pressed hard against her breasts, I would think she would be interested because it would hurt if you were applying that much pressure.

Sure, every time I get a haircut that happens lol but sometimes it's just inevitable but in this case, it was totally avoidable...

She knows I'm single, she asked me about "how's your family and wife doing"...and then I told her that I'm single.
It's funny how relaxed some women get, when dealing with a single guy with no wives or girlfriends in the background. Damn..too bad she is married...I would have asked her out by now.

ok, when I said "hard" I didn't mean forceful or painful, just firmly

Anyway, the best way to figure it out is to ask her out for a coffee or something. You have nothing to loose, and even if she doesn't go, she'll take it as a compliment so no pressure.

This.

But seriously, this story could turn out to be really porno worthy.

Maybe you should feel her out...maybe she's not (or nolonger happy in her marriage...maybe he's a jerk...you've never been in a relationship and then met someone you realized you were into more? ; )

I'm sure I will ask her out unless she begins to demonstrate complete lack of interest, BUT seriously, I'd really like some women's opinions on my original question please?

Don't put any value to the boob thing. Therapists and docs do not think about it when they are ministering to patients. I get boobs sometimes too and male docs who will have their privates on my legs and stuff while they are checking me out.

Just don't read into that.

Also if she is your therapist she can get fired for dating you.

So if she wants you to be her patient then no, she is not trying to date you.

I have a female chiropractor and as Dragoness said boob contact just happens.

My first thoughts: Her actions are inappropriate if she meant them intentionally. Not to say she will, but many sexual harassment lawsuits were inspired by less. I am a massage therapist and the guidelines for touching and gestures are very clear.

If she is interested - too bad she can't be more mature and upfront. Veiled communication irritates me. The way she approached it would be a turn-off for me (if it were a guy).

Considering you met her in a professional environment, I would leave it alone. If you want to pursue the possibility - be cautious. This isn’t much different than dating a co-worker.

After your therapy is complete you will be in a more appropriate position to ask her out.

Only a guy would get the wrong idea by a breast brushing In certain occupations it just can't be helped.

I had a good thing on asexual harassment and ya went and edited on me.

I caught my typo!

I want to hear your play on it anyway!

UMMMmmmmmmmmm!

My last GF was an MFT. Her behavior is unethical to say the least. I think she is just trying to get more patience. I would say you are being manipulated. There are rules about patient and doctor interaction and she clearly has violated that one! Also she is trying to steal you from your regular therapist.



Danger Danger Will Robinson!

It may have just been unavoidable, maybe she needed your hand in a certain position to wrap it or whatever she was doing. You guys need to realize that you dont have boob contact all the time, we have these things 24/7 and sometimes we forget they're there and just don't realize when they get in the way. The bigger they are, the more they interfere with just daily activity.

I think you really should take a good look at the rest of her behavior. It really depends on just how flirty she was, and where on her chest / breast she placed your hand. Like for instance, if she just plopped your open hand knuckles down on top of her breasts, she was probably using her breasts to hold up your arm so she could tend to it, so she wouldn't have to hold it up. But, if she placed your hand where her boob would come in contact with the palm of your hand, thats probably a signal. Maybe she was trying to get a reaction out of you... who knows..

It kinda the same as if, lets say, I had a gash in my arm, and you had to tend to it. You sat down and laid my arm across your lap, part of my hand coming in contact with your 'business'. (trying to be clean here :-) Is that a signal that you want to be sexual with me???

Is there a way to convince girlfriends to just "use" the daily boob activity with their boyfriends, just like doctors do to their patients? I mean...just ask any guy who would object such things as "could you hold onto my boob until I tie my shoelaces"?

NOT one (ex) gf ever let me touch her boob in a sort of "helping out of type" other than during sex. Why is that?

Ask her out!! When you get my age and you missed an opportunity you will look back on it and say WHY DIDN'T I ASK??

That's what I keep saying! Don't you feel like just smacking some people having such chances let go to waste? Even if she isn't, this has to be a fun thing anyway.

For the record, I dated a doctor for 5 years. She wasn't a doctor then, but she was dealing with patients and she told me she was hit on a daily basis, even though she wasn't showing interest. I asked her what did she think of them, she just said she kindly refused the offer, but it made them feel good, that she still "got it"..meaning she is attractive.

Women are still women , even with a stethoscope and rubber gloves.