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Topic: advice for the shy
Pepper2007's photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:07 AM
smartazzjohn, you would know about those types of issues, sorry if I
offended you, I did,nt know you were gay !

Jc316jc's photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:09 AM
god was asking this siruusly but seem to be a topic for the joke forum
... i have been with a women only one women i met her 10 years ago over
the internet n was with her all this time till she desided to cheet my
dad died when i was 15 years old so i could never ask him how to do this
things. so no i have never been on a date thats y i asked

Smartazzjohn's photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:11 AM
I said I didn't know, do you have a problem understanding? I said I
didn't know and from your 1st post you indicated you did know, I was
wrong, you aren't my hero, you are just a mental midget, sorry I
confused you

Pepper2007's photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:15 AM
Okay, here we go.
Walk up to her, start talking about something thats present, like the
weather, the bad service at the restaurant, etc.
allow her to talk, and continue the conversation, and once you get her
talking, then introduce yourself, and go from there.

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:19 AM
Jc-
i think it is a truthful question
i donot think that any guy that has a lack of
knowledge is either gay or something
trust me some guys who think they know how
to approach a woman--donot!!
shy is sweet. i am shy myself
be yourself and be honest.
no set rules, just keep trying til you
feel comfortable with yourself

no photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:32 AM
Here's some advice since all u are getting is jokes...anyway first of
all..be yourself...dont say fake things just to say them..u know? Dont
say something like " I think you are the one for me" or something like
that....because women can tell a "fake" man a mile away...lol...but use
open-ended questions like..." What do u think about _____?" ...for sure
she wil be able to answer with a detailed answer instead of a "yes" or
"no" which leads nowhere...at least this way..it will be sure to keep
the conversation going...good luck!!!

carebear19622's photo
Fri 06/22/07 11:39 AM
I just do things I like such as karaoke. If a woman talks to me ,I talk
back, if no one does I'm still doing something I like.

no photo
Fri 06/22/07 12:00 PM
Hmmmmm I can be very shy but for some weird reason no one ever believes
me!!!!grumble grumble grumble

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 06/22/07 12:07 PM
i believe you........not:wink:

i am shy too

no photo
Fri 06/22/07 12:19 PM
No really, I can be very shy and quiet but once you get to know me then
I can't shuttup!!! I guess it depends if I feel safe enough to be me.

carebear19622's photo
Fri 06/22/07 12:21 PM
I'm only shy when I'm really attracted to someone and not drunk!

mnhiker's photo
Mon 06/25/07 01:04 AM
I'm shy. blushing

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Mon 06/25/07 08:02 AM
not being sarcastic
but i think that most of the ladies feel a little bit apprehensive when
a guy approaches to them and start a conversation.
And it's understandable we don't know strangers.
What I try to do is to wait for the right moment and start a
conversation out of casualty and from there keep going if she seems
interested.

Regards

TLW

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Mon 06/25/07 08:03 AM
BTW I'm the shiest

Smartazzjohn's photo
Mon 06/25/07 08:14 AM
I'm kinda shy when it come to approaching women when I'm out at a bar or
club, I think part of the reason is I don't want to come off as someone
trying to find a woman for the night, I'm not that kind of guy. I want
more than that, I want a loving caring, meaningful weekend relationship
J/K :P

no photo
Mon 06/25/07 10:57 AM
Ty ladies ,i found that very informative .I also am a little shy ,but
mostly I cant stand regection ,that is my honest fear ,like asking a
sranger to dsance ,if she says no im imbaresed and ill never ask her
again
but ty for your imput as well

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