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smartazzjohn, you would know about those types of issues, sorry if I
offended you, I did,nt know you were gay ! |
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god was asking this siruusly but seem to be a topic for the joke forum
... i have been with a women only one women i met her 10 years ago over the internet n was with her all this time till she desided to cheet my dad died when i was 15 years old so i could never ask him how to do this things. so no i have never been on a date thats y i asked |
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I said I didn't know, do you have a problem understanding? I said I
didn't know and from your 1st post you indicated you did know, I was wrong, you aren't my hero, you are just a mental midget, sorry I confused you |
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Okay, here we go.
Walk up to her, start talking about something thats present, like the weather, the bad service at the restaurant, etc. allow her to talk, and continue the conversation, and once you get her talking, then introduce yourself, and go from there. |
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Jc-
i think it is a truthful question i donot think that any guy that has a lack of knowledge is either gay or something trust me some guys who think they know how to approach a woman--donot!! shy is sweet. i am shy myself be yourself and be honest. no set rules, just keep trying til you feel comfortable with yourself |
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Here's some advice since all u are getting is jokes...anyway first of
all..be yourself...dont say fake things just to say them..u know? Dont say something like " I think you are the one for me" or something like that....because women can tell a "fake" man a mile away...lol...but use open-ended questions like..." What do u think about _____?" ...for sure she wil be able to answer with a detailed answer instead of a "yes" or "no" which leads nowhere...at least this way..it will be sure to keep the conversation going...good luck!!! |
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I just do things I like such as karaoke. If a woman talks to me ,I talk
back, if no one does I'm still doing something I like. |
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Hmmmmm I can be very shy but for some weird reason no one ever believes
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i believe you........not
![]() i am shy too |
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No really, I can be very shy and quiet but once you get to know me then
I can't shuttup!!! I guess it depends if I feel safe enough to be me. |
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I'm only shy when I'm really attracted to someone and not drunk!
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I'm shy.
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not being sarcastic
but i think that most of the ladies feel a little bit apprehensive when a guy approaches to them and start a conversation. And it's understandable we don't know strangers. What I try to do is to wait for the right moment and start a conversation out of casualty and from there keep going if she seems interested. Regards TLW |
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BTW I'm the shiest
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I'm kinda shy when it come to approaching women when I'm out at a bar or
club, I think part of the reason is I don't want to come off as someone trying to find a woman for the night, I'm not that kind of guy. I want more than that, I want a loving caring, meaningful weekend relationship J/K :P |
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Ty ladies ,i found that very informative .I also am a little shy ,but
mostly I cant stand regection ,that is my honest fear ,like asking a sranger to dsance ,if she says no im imbaresed and ill never ask her again but ty for your imput as well |
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