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Right now I do not think I am looking for anything. Am more actually thinking of leaving everything and making a fresh start..........seems like the time for me. Fresh starts are good! |
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I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice Any guy would be lucky to be your friend. |
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I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice Any guy would be lucky to be your friend. |
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although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone. I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa. from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough. a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her. of course Sex and romance are very important too. I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship. |
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although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone. I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa. from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough. a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her. of course Sex and romance are very important too. I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship. That's pretty much how I feel about it. |
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I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice Any guy would be lucky to be your friend. |
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looking for? Someone compatible.... Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? All of the above are good reasons to want to be in a relationship, I suppose. But I would only want to be in a relationship where those positives outweigh the ubiquitous negatives I can't seem to get away from. Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? I'm not sure I would, at this point. I've always said I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person, and wrong persons seem to be the only ones who exist. |
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looking for? Someone compatible.... Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? All of the above are good reasons to want to be in a relationship, I suppose. But I would only want to be in a relationship where those positives outweigh the ubiquitous negatives I can't seem to get away from. Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? I'm not sure I would, at this point. I've always said I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person, and wrong persons seem to be the only ones who exist. I can relate to that. I would definitely rather be alone than be with the wrong person. |
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i like being single... but i like sex too
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i like being single... but i like sex too You don't have to be in a relationship to have sex. Just make sure the other person knows what you are and aren't looking for. |
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i like being single... but i like sex too You can have both |
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i like being single... but i like sex too You don't have to be in a relationship to have sex. Just make sure the other person knows what you are and aren't looking for. Agreed |
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looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? I'm just looking for a Klondike Bar. No, but ice cream would be cool. I'm fine either way, all the failed relationships and only one common denominator would mean I'm a failure in every aspect of being in a relationship. So I just do what I do and if someone appreciates it enough maybe something will happen. *smile* |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 06/29/10 01:24 PM
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looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? Hi Ruth! I prefer being single because my life is in order. I have my career, I’m almost done with my master’s and I have focus for the future. I'm silly busy and I don't crave attention or companionship. I have my friends, work and school. ENOUGH! Its complicated being in a relationship and I have little to no tolerance for other people’s crap. I know that sounds harsh but at least I don’t play head games and lead anyone on. As I said in another thread, it would take someone perfectly matched for me to lure me from my life now. I love dating; no commitment, no emotional ties or the need to share life. I haven’t been on a 3rd or 4th date with the same guy in a year. I like just letting things run their course. I only date guys who are likeminded. I don't always have sex with guys I date either. If I share my body with a guy he has to be more than a one-date-dude. |
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although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone. I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa. from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough. a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her. of course Sex and romance are very important too. I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship. you know if Sex is what we are after, Sex is easy to get, but there is much more to it than that,during college throughout my 20s, I would bounce a club to another from a woman to another, i got all the sex I wanted and more, but after time it became boring and empty, something was missing. I am not saying I cannot function without a woman, I am saying life is one dimension without a relationship and true love. |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Tue 06/29/10 01:23 PM
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oops
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Ummm my black sandals ..
Oh you mean on here? |
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looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? I'm not looking for a relationship. Just friends......... |
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looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with? Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single? I'm not looking for a relationship. Just friends......... |
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Edited by
Ruth34611
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Tue 06/29/10 01:34 PM
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i like being single... but i like sex too You can have sex without being in a relationship. Although I would not be able to....but it works for some. |
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