Topic: What are you
Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:24 PM

Right now I do not think I am looking for anything. Am more actually thinking of leaving everything and making a fresh start..........seems like the time for me.


Fresh starts are good! :thumbsup:

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:24 PM

I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice flowerforyou


Any guy would be lucky to be your friend. flowerforyou

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:26 PM


I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice flowerforyou


Any guy would be lucky to be your friend. flowerforyou
SHHHHHHHH DON'T GO SAYING THAT TOO LOUD LOL

no photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:32 PM

although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone.

I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa.

from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough.
a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her.
of course Sex and romance are very important too.


I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:33 PM


although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone.

I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa.

from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough.
a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her.
of course Sex and romance are very important too.


I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship.


That's pretty much how I feel about it.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:34 PM



I'm used to be single now after 5 years of it so right now just a friendship would be nice flowerforyou


Any guy would be lucky to be your friend. flowerforyou
SHHHHHHHH DON'T GO SAYING THAT TOO LOUD LOL

laugh flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:38 PM

looking for?


Someone compatible....


Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?


All of the above are good reasons to want to be in a relationship, I suppose. But I would only want to be in a relationship where those positives outweigh the ubiquitous negatives I can't seem to get away from.


Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


I'm not sure I would, at this point. I've always said I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person, and wrong persons seem to be the only ones who exist.

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:41 PM


looking for?


Someone compatible....


Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?


All of the above are good reasons to want to be in a relationship, I suppose. But I would only want to be in a relationship where those positives outweigh the ubiquitous negatives I can't seem to get away from.


Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


I'm not sure I would, at this point. I've always said I'd rather be alone than be with the wrong person, and wrong persons seem to be the only ones who exist.



I can relate to that. I would definitely rather be alone than be with the wrong person.

mightymoe's photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:43 PM
i like being single... but i like sex too

no photo
Tue 06/29/10 12:48 PM

i like being single... but i like sex too


You don't have to be in a relationship to have sex. Just make sure the other person knows what you are and aren't looking for.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:01 PM

i like being single... but i like sex too



You can have both

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:02 PM


i like being single... but i like sex too


You don't have to be in a relationship to have sex. Just make sure the other person knows what you are and aren't looking for.




Agreed

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:02 PM

looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


I'm just looking for a Klondike Bar.

No, but ice cream would be cool.

I'm fine either way, all the failed relationships and only one common denominator would mean I'm a failure in every aspect of being in a relationship. So I just do what I do and if someone appreciates it enough maybe something will happen. *smile*

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:20 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 06/29/10 01:24 PM

looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


Hi Ruth! flowerforyou

I prefer being single because my life is in order. I have my career, I’m almost done with my master’s and I have focus for the future.

I'm silly busy and I don't crave attention or companionship. I have my friends, work and school. ENOUGH! laugh

Its complicated being in a relationship and I have little to no tolerance for other people’s crap. I know that sounds harsh but at least I don’t play head games and lead anyone on. As I said in another thread, it would take someone perfectly matched for me to lure me from my life now.

I love dating; no commitment, no emotional ties or the need to share life. I haven’t been on a 3rd or 4th date with the same guy in a year. I like just letting things run their course. I only date guys who are likeminded.

I don't always have sex with guys I date either. If I share my body with a guy he has to be more than a one-date-dude. laugh

horzman's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:21 PM


although freedom is great... but I think our lives always seem to be off balance when we are alone.

I think a Man alone is incomplete until he's with a woman and vise versa.

from my prospective what I seek in a female, is a best friend, a person that I can talk to and be my self, a partner in the good and the bad, a person who can comfort me when time it tough.
a person who make my best part of my day is when I see her.
of course Sex and romance are very important too.


I don't agree that men or women are not complete without the other. I certainly am a complete person. When meeting new men, I want them to be complete as well. Not to feel that they are incomplete until they find someone to be with, therefor they have to be in a relationship.


you know if Sex is what we are after, Sex is easy to get, but there is much more to it than that,during college throughout my 20s, I would bounce a club to another from a woman to another, i got all the sex I wanted and more, but after time it became boring and empty, something was missing.

I am not saying I cannot function without a woman, I am saying life is one dimension without a relationship and true love.

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:21 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 06/29/10 01:23 PM
oops

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:27 PM
Ummm my black sandals ..

Oh you mean on here? :tongue:



oops

newarkjw's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:28 PM

looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


I'm not looking for a relationship. Just friends.........smokin

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:32 PM


looking for? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Is it the companionship? Sex? Security? Someone to do stuff with?

Why would you rather be in a relationship than be single?


I'm not looking for a relationship. Just friends.........smokin


flowerforyou waving

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 06/29/10 01:33 PM
Edited by Ruth34611 on Tue 06/29/10 01:34 PM

i like being single... but i like sex too


You can have sex without being in a relationship. Although I would not be able to....but it works for some.