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Topic: A Rebound or Restart
ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Mon 06/28/10 04:14 PM
Does the first relationship you have after you break up with someone, have to be cosidered a rebound relationship?

RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Mon 06/28/10 04:15 PM
How many days after the break up?

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Mon 06/28/10 04:18 PM
No, it's called moving on

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Mon 06/28/10 04:18 PM
How many days after the break up? Well i was kind of wondering the same thing. is there a time limit?

RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Mon 06/28/10 04:20 PM
Not really but you might be on the rebound of you just broke up yesterday. Writer_Gurl is correct, it's called moving on.

hmlover Joined Sun 02/22/09 Posts: 3156	Mon 06/28/10 04:21 PM
I would say that depends on you... are you truly ready for another relationship? If not, and you start one anyway, then it's a rebound. If you are, then it's not a rebound.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 06/28/10 04:21 PM
Does the first relationship you have after you break up with someone, have to be cosidered a rebound relationship? mine wasnt a rebound, more like heaven after what I was us too

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Mon 06/28/10 04:23 PM
I would say that depends on you... are you truly ready for another relationship? If not, and you start one anyway, then it's a rebound. If you are, then it's not a rebound. You said it best. make a lot of sense.

ChangeofHeart Joined Sun 10/26/08 Posts: 1280	Mon 06/28/10 04:24 PM
Does the first relationship you have after you break up with someone, have to be cosidered a rebound relationship? mine wasnt a rebound, more like heaven after what I was us too Its good that you made a better choice

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Mon 06/28/10 04:36 PM
I would say that depends on you... are you truly ready for another relationship? If not, and you start one anyway, then it's a rebound. If you are, then it's not a rebound.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 06/28/10 04:40 PM
I read somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over a relationship, for what its worth

justme659 Joined Wed 10/03/07 Posts: 6144	Mon 06/28/10 05:04 PM
I read somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over a relationship, for what its worth Crud, I was married for 26 years. After doing the math, Divorced for 5 years, I still have 8 more years to spend getting over it. I do not think so. I was over it 5 years ago.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 06/28/10 05:19 PM
I read somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over a relationship, for what its worth Crud, I was married for 26 years. After doing the math, Divorced for 5 years, I still have 8 more years to spend getting over it. I do not think so. I was over it 5 years ago. I hear ya, I was married 23 yrs 9 months and 8 days

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Mon 06/28/10 05:24 PM
Does the first relationship you have after you break up with someone, have to be cosidered a rebound relationship? If 'you' are the one doing the breaking up, probably not, because you have probably have time to process everything before the break up.

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 06/28/10 05:27 PM
I would say that depends on you... are you truly ready for another relationship? If not, and you start one anyway, then it's a rebound. If you are, then it's not a rebound. Well put

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Mon 06/28/10 06:24 PM
Does the first relationship you have after you break up with someone, have to be cosidered a rebound relationship? No.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Mon 06/28/10 06:41 PM
You had some rebound sex, But you decided that you really like her so now you post this question. Only you know the answer.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Mon 06/28/10 06:44 PM
I read somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over a relationship, for what its worth Actually, in the Psychology books and teaching they suggest a year for every year you were in the said relationship.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Mon 06/28/10 06:47 PM
I read somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over a relationship, for what its worth Actually, in the Psychology books and teaching they suggest a year for every year you were in the said relationship. Ill be dead by then

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Mon 06/28/10 06:57 PM
I read somewhere that it takes half the time you were together to get over a relationship, for what its worth Actually, in the Psychology books and teaching they suggest a year for every year you were in the said relationship. That's textbook psych trying to lump everyone into a neat little sum. It varies from person to person in my opinion. There a too many variables to not consider each case differently.........but I am drinking, so I may be talking out of my *** too!