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The " hypothetical " is no longer. Most of you may have guessed that I was referring to my own situation. Well...last night, I found my daughter after searching Facebook with no luck. I typed in a couple of other things, and found her MySpace profile. My girl friend thought that maybe it wouldn't be such a shock to be contacted by another woman rather than just have me suddenly pop up out of nowhere. So she messaged my daughter letting her know that I had been looking for her. My daughter replied to her tonight and after some questions and answers to prove that I am who I was telling her I am ( VERY smart woman ) I wound up talking to her for close to two hours through the IM feature on MySpace. The thing that I feared most was that she would want nothing to do with me. But it turns out that she had been wanting to contact me somehow, but wasn't sure if I would want her to because of the things she had been told over the last 8 years. This is, without a doubt, one of the best days of my entire life. |
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I'm so happy for you babe!
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Sweet way to go Hope the rebuilding goes wll for you!Good luck
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I'm so happy for you babe! You had a BIG hand in it, babe. Without you, I would probably still be sitting here wondering whether or not I should message her. Thank you. |
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I am so happy that you continued the search and together the both of you found your daughter!! That is so exciting!
My father waas adopted and he finally found his mother after years of searching and it was one of the best memories ever. |
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My vote goes to keep trying to contact her. There is no relationship greater then a dad and his child.
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I'm so happy for you babe! You had a BIG hand in it, babe. Without you, I would probably still be sitting here wondering whether or not I should message her. Thank you. How often does anyone get to witness the reuniting of a father and his daughter, let alone be apart of it? I am so blessed to have had a hand in it Tim. Thank you for letting me be a part of something so incredible. It's a moment I will never forget. I always told you that you will find her! She is one smart, beautiful, little lady. I can not believe how understanding she is. You couldn't of asked for it to go any better. It really was like a dream come true. I loved the stories that you would tell me about your daughter when she was little but, it made my heart ache for you knowing that she was not in your life. Now that you have her back, you can create new memories. Enjoy every second of it!!!! I can't wait to hear the NEW stories. |
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I'm so happy for you babe! You had a BIG hand in it, babe. Without you, I would probably still be sitting here wondering whether or not I should message her. Thank you. How often does anyone get to witness the reuniting of a father and his daughter, let alone be apart of it? I am so blessed to have had a hand in it Tim. Thank you for letting me be a part of something so incredible. It's a moment I will never forget. I always told you that you will find her! She is one smart, beautiful, little lady. I can not believe how understanding she is. You couldn't of asked for it to go any better. It really was like a dream come true. I loved the stories that you would tell me about your daughter when she was little but, it made my heart ache for you knowing that she was not in your life. Now that you have her back, you can create new memories. Enjoy every second of it!!!! I can't wait to hear the NEW stories. Well..like I told you last night...it finally hit me. I actually had to leave work early tonight because I was so overwhelmed by my emotions. That is something that I am in no way used to. Rachael, you won't have to hear the stories. You are going to be A PART of the stories. |
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I'm so happy for you babe! You had a BIG hand in it, babe. Without you, I would probably still be sitting here wondering whether or not I should message her. Thank you. How often does anyone get to witness the reuniting of a father and his daughter, let alone be apart of it? I am so blessed to have had a hand in it Tim. Thank you for letting me be a part of something so incredible. It's a moment I will never forget. I always told you that you will find her! She is one smart, beautiful, little lady. I can not believe how understanding she is. You couldn't of asked for it to go any better. It really was like a dream come true. I loved the stories that you would tell me about your daughter when she was little but, it made my heart ache for you knowing that she was not in your life. Now that you have her back, you can create new memories. Enjoy every second of it!!!! I can't wait to hear the NEW stories. Well..like I told you last night...it finally hit me. I actually had to leave work early tonight because I was so overwhelmed by my emotions. That is something that I am in no way used to. Rachael, you won't have to hear the stories. You are going to be A PART of the stories. You need to stop saying stuff like that, my poor eyeballs can't take much more! |
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How could you think for one second that you WOULDN'T be there??
I am currently experiencing the ULTIMATE in happiness. I have an incredible woman who I love and loves me back, and I now have my daughter back in my life. There is no way I would want those two things to be separated. And I'm sure Danielle doesn't either. |
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How could you think for one second that you WOULDN'T be there?? I am currently experiencing the ULTIMATE in happiness. I have an incredible woman who I love and loves me back, and I now have my daughter back in my life. There is no way I would want those two things to be separated. And I'm sure Danielle doesn't either. Did ya NOT see when I said to stop it??!!! lol |
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Holy smokes do'nt make me have to separate you two Sounds like a big day all around !Good luck you three!
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I think this Dad should find his child and explain that he has been trying to find them for a very long time!! I am sure this mother has filled the kids head with a lot of crap like..your father has left us and wants nothing to do with us!!
Go with your heart..there is nothing like a child's love!! NEVER let anyone stand between you and your child!! I SAY GO FOR IT!!! |
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How could you think for one second that you WOULDN'T be there?? I am currently experiencing the ULTIMATE in happiness. I have an incredible woman who I love and loves me back, and I now have my daughter back in my life. There is no way I would want those two things to be separated. And I'm sure Danielle doesn't either. You guys need to stop...I have tears in MY eyes!!! |
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Go Dad !!!!!
Good work in tracking her down, good work on your girlfriend for her support of your efforts. |
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Thanks, everyone.
So far, so good. She is an absolutely INCREDIBLE young lady now. Even though I didn't have much hand in raising her, I am VERY proud of her. |
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Awesome! You three have it going on,enjoy all the future has for you all.
Best of luck with your new lives!! |
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