What do you notice about someone when you meet on the first date or what are you expecting, also any good or bad first date stories?

Do you mean specifically meeting from a dating site?

Dating site, friend of a friend ,anything.

...their gender..cause if they even resemble a dude..i'm outta there.....

What a surprise that would be

I like to find out how detail orientated she is.
If she take everything literally and generally acts like she has a big stick up her butt and hasn't taken a dump in years I am outta there.

I haven't been on a date in 6 months!

I've slipped into the comfortable and safe "hanging out" phase.

I am super active with guys but not in a dating capacity.

I've forgotten what I notice or don’t notice.

In friendship situations, I notice social manners, table manners and common sense. Too many times, in my mind, I’ve thought “I could never date this guy”, when he can't seem to fight his way out of a paper bag or his chili fries are smeared all over his face.

When I hang out with the guy that vibes with me then I’m making a move. I’ll club him and bag him right there – I mean it!

Nice, tag em & bag em

i look at eyes. lets face it some have a real mean look to them and the eyes usually tell ...<like that blank stare not all there look>

so a good thing would be kindness in the eyes
another is do they smile and like to laugh
manners
i look to see if they are able to hold an intelligent conversation and both lead and follow on a topic..
im definitely not picky about clothes however if they are wearing purple or plaid polyester pants im outta there

I'm very aggressive and I take what I want ... I just need to meet someone I want!

I am “green” - I ReCylE bOys!

Then you need a man and not a boy.....I desire an agressive woman, the sparks turn to fire, and smoking is allowed

YOU Squirt??? I thought that's what SHE said??

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I have never melted yet

First thing I notice really is how he greets me. Overly aggressive heavy petting type hug or hands in his pockets head down are obvious no-no's.

Something in between

I look at how he holds himself, where his eyes are, if he is nervous or not, can he keep a conversation going that's a big one for me because I don't ever know what to talk bout. My mind goes a million miles per hour an I end up sounding like a retard.

What I notice first off is how mature they are and how honest they seem. It takes a while to determine if they are sincere with anything. Physically I notice the eyes first off.

Some stories are:

One first meet went well until he decided to kiss me.

Kissing is not necessarily a bad thing but he opened his mouth as wide as it would go and proceeded to spit up my whole face along with attempting to stick his tongue down my throat.

Now I thought he was a good guy so I debated with myself on showing him how to kiss properly by having that second date but couldn't convince myself to suffer through it.

So it ended shortly there after.



Another date went well all the way through and I liked him. But he became too emotionally needy and I soon realized that he was still too fresh from his divorce.

So that ended shortly thereafter.


I haven't had any good endings for the dating thing to date. But hope to someday soon here.

I had a date recently where he was very clingy right away, went to see a movie and he was grabbing my hand and trying to cuddle on me.

It's like I didn't get to decide if I wanted to go there or not he just went for it.

He has to own the date.
Or the night.
Or both.

I notice this right away.
There or not.

Keeping a conversation going sometimes can be tough, I believe both people should be able to do this, if I have to carry the conversation I'm going to run out of things to say soon because I'm never sure what people are comfortable talking about & if they are comfortable with most things I could talk for a long time.