to find honest people in this world any more. I have been in a ldr with this one woman for a while now. We have met in person, and all that. She says that she loves me, and wants to start a life with me, and only me. Well. After I have hurt many times, I tend to be cautious. So. Two days ago I created a new profile on facebook, then without even putting a picture in my profile I sent her a friend request. She accepted it. So. Lastnight after we said our goodnights to each other, and her telling me that she loved me with all her heart. I turned off my phone then got on the computer onto my fake yahoo page. I then went on facebook and sent her a message telling her that I thought she was sexy looking, and asked her if she was single. With in 3 minutes I got her response. She said that she was single and not involved with anyone. And, without even knowing anything about me, she gave me her email address. Well. Guess I will go back to looking once again. Im not giving up.

a. she knows it was you and is being just as sneaky

b. shes using you to get something from you

3. Even though in your mind, you did the right thing, it really wasn't the right thing to do. Communication is the key. Simply ask her.

If there isn't trust, there is nothing to build on and no
reason to continue.

Sorry you get no sympathy from me. You started the game and now you are hurt/disapointed/angry that you lost the game? And on top of it all you blame her. Did you ever think that she is a nice person and was just trying to have friends? Can't your gal friend have other male friends other than you? Isnt that a tad bit controlling? And I bet you can tell me you have never talked to-emailed-or perved another female profile now that you are in this LDR relationship. Got a bridge to sell me also?

Yes. i have talked to, and emailed with other females. but. Have right from the beginning have told them I was spoken for for, and only looking for friends. When a woman asks me if Im single, I ALWAYS reply NO. I make it plain to them that Im in a relationship. I feel that thats what she should be doing. Letting the guys know that she is taken. Not to tell the guy thaty she is single. To me. That is very misleading.

And as far as sympathy goes. I wasnt looking for any.