Myself if they live close enough to meet then heck lets do it quick and get it over with that way if it don't work out you don't have all that time invested..... Heck if they don't mention it and we are e-mailing back and forth then I will mention we get together..... If they ignore it then ohh well I will move on then.... No time to play little games either met me or move on when they live within driving distances....

I have never actually met anyone that lived within 50 miles of me. I have met some that live within 896,000 miles of me.

I won't ask a gal out until I feel she is truely interested in meeting me anymore. I figure, if she wants to meet me, she will ask me to take her out for a ride.

i agree kristy however not in 3 emails lol short ones or the first email!

as far as the no pic thing... i do want to see a pic too first or webcam... strange thing ive been talking to a no pic on here lately. i always talk to them but this one is strange.. he isnt the situation is.. hes exactly my age.. lives humm 40 miles from me, and i looked at his profile before i read the message.. i thought i was reading my profile! then i open his mail and his said that!! even has kids the age of mine and 3 of them as well... i asked him if he read my profile before he made his then emailed me he said no but sure looks that way we have done quite a few emails though.. i wasnt talking about him..i just broughht it up cause of the no pic comment

I don't want pictures, I want her on the back seat of my trike, so we can go take our own pictures, together. Besides, I wanna study her french fry dippng technique

ut oh!!! she deactivated... good luck JT

for myself, I email for a couple times, and try to insert sometning with some semblance of intelligence into each one. Then I ask if she would like to meet, at a time and place of her choosing with someone she trusts along for her comfort. Then, the choice is hers and I do not push the issue. Guess what, I have never had one accept the offer, more content to just keep emailing or im'ing along forever. I mean wtf, the women on here, and other sites don't want to meet anyone, just seem to want to play some stupid ego game,(Ohhhh, I got 10 emails today) I think. And, it is not like there are a whole lot of ladies within a hundred of so miles of Smoot, Wy, single or not.
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maybe I should be a little less considerate and just tell them on the first email,..."Biotch, lets get together at my house tom night, take it or leave it!!!"...........nah, don't think that would work either

ummm well i have that very same problem with the men... only i did not ask them... they ask me and make me get ready and then do not call... hummm

Maybe email for a week or two, then a couple of phone calls. Then a mutually agreed upon 'meet and greet'. Something simple like coffee or lunch.

If that goes well...................

I really haven't had too many 'real night time dates' with the gal I am seeing now. At first because it was a 3 hr drive, now she lives 15 mins away. We like to get together for all day stuff.

I would love to even know of any available males with in 50 miles of me....

I met someone on here, he lives quite a ways away, but he makes me happy and i say that's what counts!!

I do not feel 3 emails are enough. I live in a shrinking community (population wise) and I need to look further. I did. I met someone on FB 2 hours away. She was very pleasant on line so after 1 month of chatting on line I decided to pack and head out to an unknown world. I met her in a public place where it was confortable.
We met for dinner. Over a glass of wine we shared our thoughts and then dinner and more came.
She asked when I was last sexually active, how big my ____ was and suggested a 2 day sex marathon with me before I left for home.
I got up from the table leaving her to believe that I needed to go to the washroom. I asked the server behind a wall for the check, paid for our dinner, jumped in my car and headed for home.
I know that all dates will not be perfect but I am patiently waiting for that date that will be the first to culminate a dream relationship.
I have found that the people you meet on the internet only show the cover of their Book of Life. Meeting them allows each partner to open that cover and start learning more of each other.

probably best u did run. i had an experience simular.. though ive had good ones too. better luck next time!!

fyi.. i talked with abby for over a year before we met, and she was everything she said she was. also i had her investigated by a detective.... takes time to build trust.