in your experience?

oops damn it "LONG"!

soft,,mannerly,,professionally,,,then
Lose, relaxed, teasing,then
HOT,romantic,sensually, sexy,,,and then,
THE REAL STUFF,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,MOANS,,and heavy breathing,lol
well,,,you asked,,,right?

If you think about it, mach25, your original question was very
metaphysical and thought-provoking!

Um for me it was over a month...I think almost 2 months

I got really lucky
Didn't take long at all

For me, about 2months of emailing/phone calls on and off

There isn't a set time Mach...BUT when you both feel comfortable enough
to meet...Could be a day...could be a year it depends on the
individuals!!!!!!!

jUST USE CAUTION WHEN MEETING SOMEONE ONLINE

Yeah what Twin said
They could be a weirdo or something and might show up on a train or
something and stay at your house

I have talked to a guy for 25 months, the first 12 months was plainly
wholesome but sad to say he was my ex, and didnt meet him in
person

I agree with Native Girl, I have met after just a couple of weeks, a
couple of months and one after a year. and one the same day. That one,
wee didnt meet on line, she is a neighbor,but that one didnt work out to
well.

When she says "please"

Andy....

It all depends, on how it goes. Sometimes I meet people after a few
weeks, it all depends on how I feel if we click or not. And always meet
at a public place....like for coffee or a drink at first. It just makes
it...real light

correspond via your computer of course. Tut !

Emails, IMs, phone calls, SMS, a lot of medium!

I'm {{{{{mama}}}}}'s baby gurl!

If you think about it, mach25, your original question was very
metaphysical and thought-provoking!

Rivergal, you rock!!! :)

Of course you'll meet a lot of people who just want to talk, they really
don't want to meet in person. IMHO talk is cheap, actions speak a lot
of a lot louder than words.

Mach, I met 2 from on line last year -- one I talked to for a little
over 2 months before we met, the other was closer to 4 months.

No good either way! But I don't think that was a function of a
time-frame error so much as it was a "picking the wrong person" type
error.

In the past, I've met them as soon as 2 weeks after first e-mail
contact. No good there, either, that was the arsonist.

I truly believe, though, that the problem, IF there is going to be a
problem, is more likely to be with the person, than with the lag time
between talking and meeting.

IMHO most people are just too picky. I'm not, but hey I'm an old lady I
can't afford to be to choosy. Breathing and able to get it up are about
my only criteria...