So tell me people of HI here,,,???

Do you have any CERTAIN PREFERENCES on WHAT kind of person YOU are
SEEKING???

I want to put THIS out as SOME might not know me or mine,so
I AM NOT attracted to heavy ladies, other than "THAT" I really am open
to anyone,,now ,,,,WHY IS "THAT",,,ok.

When I was about 8 years old I was abused by a stranger, a very heavy
lady who was drunk and didn't care to hear my crys,,,,SO THATS MY TRUTH,
and my SHALLOW of ME...

I have NEVER been attracted to heavy women since then and if anyone
finds me shallow for this,,,IM SORRY, but IM REAL WITH "THAT" and
"ME".

What do you folks think,,and what if any are YOUR PREFERENCES????

IM4U-I totally understand. I hate that you had to go through that.
'Heavy' can be objective. How heavy is heavy? Or is it a case by case
basis?

I prefer clean shaven men. No moustaches or full beards. Maybe because
my Dad was clean shaven?

I think, for your sake, if you still have associations between your
abuse and women who had nothing to do with the abuse (heavy women
today), you have not fully healed.

iam, sure I do but it's not always the physical or the inner
attributes....more like a combination of a lot of things. The
communication through messages and im's gives me a good indication of
how much I am attracted to them. But, the feeling has to be mutual,
doesn't it.

That could be a hidin mind thing?? But I can love them as friends, just
my thoughts and out looks of them, do NOTHING for me sexually,,,To know
ones self, and to know how you feel, should THAT not just be
enough?

I have talked to MANY ladies who WILL NOT date a man shorter than 6 ft
tall??
And ones who say they WILL NOT date a SHORT man, or SHORTER THAN THEM??

So--------------?

This guy I met on match.com swore women called and demanded to know the
size of his penis before they would date him. But then again, maybe word
got around, because his penis was the size of my thumb. And no, he
didn't know how to use it.

Poor Rivergirl having to find out first hand (or first thumb). LOL!

Sorry River,,,so THEN,,,WOULD "THAT" BE ONE OF YOUR PREFERENCES??
The mans Penis must be BIGGER than his THUMB.....lol

Iam, it is just a sensitive subject among women. Women, no matter what
size, want to know, they are desired. Though i applaud your truth, maybe
there is a better way of expressing that issue. I know men that would
have no one but a generous amount of woman. To each his, or her own.

I was hoping to get some womens views on if THEY felt me shallow
for being THIS WAY??

Its NOT by choice, ITS by CIRCUMSTANCE!!

Iam, you want what you want. There shouldn't be any condemnation or hate
mail over it. Me? I prefer smart guys. I hate trying to hold a
conversation with a guy who doesn't care about knowledge. So, that is
this heavy lady's point of view. Have a great evening.

Marie

Understand

You were one of my first friends on here and have been honest with me
since day one. I don't have an issue with your preference and
appreciate your honesty. I have told you about my battle with my weight
and you are still one of my best friends and have been more like a
brother to me than I have had in real life. You really came through for
me this past week with my brother's death and all and have always been
there for me whenever I have needed support. Thanks for being my
friend.

We all have preferences. I guess I have issues about men who are a lot
shorter than me, being around 5'11", but don't think much else would
bother me. Guess I would take them on a case by case basis. The only
absolute out for me would be a violent temper.

Don't get me wrong passion,,your views are wanted to,,I just get uneasy
with this question and my feelings with some ladies I have met here.?



And thank YOU Need....

No problem, Iam. No need to get hysterical about opinions!!!

AHHH,YOU are so KIND and SWEET Marie,,
Thank YOU,,and Thank you for ALWAYS excepting me EVEN with MY
VIEWS,,,that in it self,,,TAKE A BIG PERSON,,,INSIDE!!
And YOU to are,,,,MY BEST FRIEND HERE, Thank you for sharing
that.

Iam, I understand your feelings. I had very similar issues in my
marriage.

Stop, Iam, you're gonna make me blush. LOL.

Thank Summer(((HUGS))))
And,,go ahead Need,,,I want to see you turn red,,,lol

No, you dont, iam. I'd look like some kind of mutant lobster. LOL.