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Topic: How much of what you hear do you believe...
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Tue 05/25/10 02:51 PM
How much of what you hear do you believe...

..from the opposite sex..??

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Tue 05/25/10 02:59 PM
Well, that depends. There are members of the opposite sex who have proven themselves extremely credible. So I would say, in some cases, I'd believe 100% of what they tell me. This would include a lot of my friends on this site.

On the other hand, if it's someone I'm in a relationship with, then I already know that everything they tell me for the first 90 days is going to be a lie!

shades


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Tue 05/25/10 03:01 PM
I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.

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Tue 05/25/10 03:02 PM

I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.


..a shot of tequila with that salt might be good too.

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Tue 05/25/10 03:03 PM

Well, that depends. There are members of the opposite sex who have proven themselves extremely credible. So I would say, in some cases, I'd believe 100% of what they tell me. This would include a lot of my friends on this site.

On the other hand, if it's someone I'm in a relationship with, then I already know that everything they tell me for the first 90 days is going to be a lie!

shades





I'm a virgin. bigsmile

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Tue 05/25/10 03:04 PM
I'm very gullible ohwell

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Tue 05/25/10 03:06 PM


Well, that depends. There are members of the opposite sex who have proven themselves extremely credible. So I would say, in some cases, I'd believe 100% of what they tell me. This would include a lot of my friends on this site.

On the other hand, if it's someone I'm in a relationship with, then I already know that everything they tell me for the first 90 days is going to be a lie!

shades





I'm a virgin. bigsmile


Oh, I've heard that one....or "I love everything about you"....or "No, I'm not shooting up, those are spider bites".....or "I hope you never change!" (until day 91 when it becomes "Now I must do everything in my power to change you!" followed by a maniacal laugh and a thunderstorm in the background....)


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Tue 05/25/10 03:07 PM


I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.


..a shot of tequila with that salt might be good too.


Girl.....I stay AWAY from the tequila. laugh

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Tue 05/25/10 03:08 PM
I believe them till they give me a reason not to then I ignore anything that person says after that.......whoa

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Tue 05/25/10 03:09 PM



I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.


..a shot of tequila with that salt might be good too.


Girl.....I stay AWAY from the tequila. laugh


It makes your clothes fall off...........smokin

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Tue 05/25/10 03:11 PM




I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.


..a shot of tequila with that salt might be good too.


Girl.....I stay AWAY from the tequila. laugh


It makes your clothes fall off...........smokin


nope...makes me meaner than I already am laugh

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Tue 05/25/10 03:13 PM


Oh, I've heard that one....or "I love everything about you"....or "No, I'm not shooting up, those are spider bites".....or "I hope you never change!" (until day 91 when it becomes "Now I must do everything in my power to change you!" followed by a maniacal laugh and a thunderstorm in the background....)





Hahaha. You got the spider bite story too?


It depends on the girl. I've had suspiciously good luck with honesty in women when I actually ask them questions. Girlfriends not so much... but that's what happens when you date crazy girls.

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Tue 05/25/10 03:13 PM
I don't discriminate by gender, there are some females I know that are very credible and trustworthy and others not so much, same for males.

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Tue 05/25/10 03:14 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Tue 05/25/10 03:14 PM



Well, that depends. There are members of the opposite sex who have proven themselves extremely credible. So I would say, in some cases, I'd believe 100% of what they tell me. This would include a lot of my friends on this site.

On the other hand, if it's someone I'm in a relationship with, then I already know that everything they tell me for the first 90 days is going to be a lie!

shades





I'm a virgin. bigsmile


Oh, I've heard that one....or "I love everything about you"....or "No, I'm not shooting up, those are spider bites".....or "I hope you never change!" (until day 91 when it becomes "Now I must do everything in my power to change you!" followed by a maniacal laugh and a thunderstorm in the background....)




Want to hear one of my favorites?

"I love you just the way you are." (until you marry them, then you are ripe for your personal make-over into their ideal wife.)

Living up to people's ideal expectations is just not possible.


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Tue 05/25/10 03:19 PM

Want to hear one of my favorites?

"I love you just the way you are." (until you marry them, then you are ripe for your personal make-over into their ideal wife.)

Living up to people's ideal expectations is just not possible.


I told my ex-wife, the day I met her, that I would not get involved with a drug user or a drinker. And she said "I never mess with any of that stuff."

And when we split up, it was because she was using drugs on weekend visits to her mother's house. She even sold the ring I bought her to get drugs. The guy she dated after we split up was her dealer.


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Tue 05/25/10 03:23 PM


Want to hear one of my favorites?

"I love you just the way you are." (until you marry them, then you are ripe for your personal make-over into their ideal wife.)

Living up to people's ideal expectations is just not possible.


I told my ex-wife, the day I met her, that I would not get involved with a drug user or a drinker. And she said "I never mess with any of that stuff."

And when we split up, it was because she was using drugs on weekend visits to her mother's house. She even sold the ring I bought her to get drugs. The guy she dated after we split up was her dealer.




Then you should learn not to tell them up front what you want or what you don't want. They will only try to fool you into believing that is who they are. Just let them be their true self. (Insist on it.) Then when you reject them, you can tell them why.:tongue:


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Tue 05/25/10 03:38 PM





I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.


..a shot of tequila with that salt might be good too.


Girl.....I stay AWAY from the tequila. laugh


It makes your clothes fall off...........smokin


nope...makes me meaner than I already am laugh



Yikes!!!!!!!!!!............smokin

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Tue 05/25/10 03:58 PM





I take things (from whoever) with a grain of salt. I might keep it in the back of my head, but I do my own research or have to see it for myself.


..a shot of tequila with that salt might be good too.


Girl.....I stay AWAY from the tequila. laugh


It makes your clothes fall off...........smokin


nope...makes me meaner than I already am laugh



Then it brings out your dark side.

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Tue 05/25/10 04:10 PM

Then you should learn not to tell them up front what you want or what you don't want. They will only try to fool you into believing that is who they are. Just let them be their true self. (Insist on it.) Then when you reject them, you can tell them why.:tongue:


The problem with that is it ends up wasting a LOT of time.

I've rectified that now, though -- I just assume everyone I get involved with is incompatible and a liar! It may sound harsh, but I haven't been wrong yet!

shades

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Tue 05/25/10 04:10 PM
I believe everything I am told.
That is my frame of reference, as I do
not lie.
This makes me tres naive.
I have always been aware of that, but
there seems to be nothing I can do
about it.
Life experiences do not seem to affect
that.

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