Its not to bad if you have some horses a dependable truck & horse trailer and a good dog

*just realizing why I am still single*...lol

Yeppers!

I think that being in a long term relationship for so long alienated a lot of my my friends by moving and being with my partner. So now after so long I have no one to go back to. I have family but they live a long way away.
I suppose I like looking after and having someone to be with. Kind of my reson-Detre so to speak.

I was the good wife, the one who took care of everything and I mean "everything". Heck, the only thing the man had to make a decision on was which underwear to put on. And no, not because I am a control freak, he simply layed it all on my shoulders, right down to which house to buy. I thought at first I had hit the "Motherload", turns out the only thing I hit was the "motherload of BS". Turns out, he was cheating on me. Of course as always, I was alone when I decided to actually look at the phone bill, something I had not done in over a yr. And there was the proof, a man who never called me or his family for that matter, spent hrs on the phone with some slut somewhere else. Ran a reverse phone check, by time he got home, all I did was lay a sheet in front of him with all of her info on it, including a criminal background check.
So, it's not always the women. I was going to forgive him, but he even lied to the Pastor. So, I am single not because I wanted to, but because I have to maintain my safety foremost.

I wont get into my sob story here...but I really feel for ya dude! Hang in there.

Woman's interpretation of, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you."...I used this line to break up with last boyfriend cuz it is totally how I felt...I cared about him and wanted him to be happy, but he doesn't make my knees weak when I think about him...I don't get all happy when I think about seeing him, it was more like another errand I had to run that day...being with him got to be part of my routine instead of me being excited to see him...I ended it before I wasted more of his time...or mine....

welcome to the club! Me too, and damn it gets lonely. I have tried getting dates, either Im too agressive or intimidating or something or i come here and although choices are many they all live in BFE!