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Topic: Are you naive and....
Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 04/25/10 02:15 AM


Not naive..fool hearty, yes. I trust until I am given a reason not to,
I have been told maybe I am going about that the opposite way. I will give the benefit of the doubt, but when I am betrayed..I have no problem walking away. Every one get a shot with me...if they blow it they lose a very loyal and caring friend.


wish more people were like that :thumbsup:


Most don't give trust first, that's for sure. I wonder sometimes if I would serve myself better to do the opposite...trust no one until they prove their worthy of trust. I just can't wrap my mind around that, even if it might be better, safer..

74Drew's photo
Sun 04/25/10 04:25 AM

are you callous and jaded?

some would say i am.
but the right loving woman could soften the callouses and renew my energy.


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Moonblood's photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:34 AM
You find these days the ones callous and jaded have been hurt enough in life to surrond their heart behind a wall, and keep people at arms length so they no longer can be hurt.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:37 AM
No and yes....:heart:

Moonblood's photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:38 AM
you have to explain that one

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:39 AM



Not naive..fool hearty, yes. I trust until I am given a reason not to,
I have been told maybe I am going about that the opposite way. I will give the benefit of the doubt, but when I am betrayed..I have no problem walking away. Every one get a shot with me...if they blow it they lose a very loyal and caring friend.


wish more people were like that :thumbsup:


Most don't give trust first, that's for sure. I wonder sometimes if I would serve myself better to do the opposite...trust no one until they prove their worthy of trust. I just can't wrap my mind around that, even if it might be better, safer..


Ditto, I'm the same way I just can't shut myself off from others and rather take the road of giving my trust first........maybe it is wrong according to some but I see it wrong to shut people out and not give them the benefit of the doubt.

But as said betray me and watch me turn and walk away with out a problem....


no photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:41 AM

Not naive..fool hearty, yes. I trust until I am given a reason not to,
I have been told maybe I am going about that the opposite way. I will give the benefit of the doubt, but when I am betrayed..I have no problem walking away. Every one get a shot with me...if they blow it they lose a very loyal and caring friend.
But,,,,But,,,,,I was only JOKING with that crane and ball swinging in the air,,,IT WAS NEVER SUPPOSE TO HIT YOUR CAR!!!!

ohwell sorry....:wink: laugh

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:46 AM

you have to explain that one




No I'm not naive.....

Yes I live knda foolheartdedly.....fly with the wind...

But always know how and where I'm gonna land!:heart:

Tessa02's photo
Sun 04/25/10 10:57 AM
I don't consider myself naive. I can usually determine a persons intentions within talking to them only a few minutes. I'm rarely wrong about people. Although it has happened a few times & once here when I was used to make another woman jealous so she'd date a guy!:wink:

laveidem's photo
Sun 04/25/10 11:59 AM
I'm not naive... I'm just less crafty than most :tongue:

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