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Not naive..fool hearty, yes. I trust until I am given a reason not to, I have been told maybe I am going about that the opposite way. I will give the benefit of the doubt, but when I am betrayed..I have no problem walking away. Every one get a shot with me...if they blow it they lose a very loyal and caring friend. wish more people were like that ![]() Most don't give trust first, that's for sure. I wonder sometimes if I would serve myself better to do the opposite...trust no one until they prove their worthy of trust. I just can't wrap my mind around that, even if it might be better, safer.. |
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are you callous and jaded? some would say i am. but the right loving woman could soften the callouses and renew my energy. . . . |
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You find these days the ones callous and jaded have been hurt enough in life to surrond their heart behind a wall, and keep people at arms length so they no longer can be hurt.
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No and yes....
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you have to explain that one
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Not naive..fool hearty, yes. I trust until I am given a reason not to, I have been told maybe I am going about that the opposite way. I will give the benefit of the doubt, but when I am betrayed..I have no problem walking away. Every one get a shot with me...if they blow it they lose a very loyal and caring friend. wish more people were like that ![]() Most don't give trust first, that's for sure. I wonder sometimes if I would serve myself better to do the opposite...trust no one until they prove their worthy of trust. I just can't wrap my mind around that, even if it might be better, safer.. Ditto, I'm the same way I just can't shut myself off from others and rather take the road of giving my trust first........maybe it is wrong according to some but I see it wrong to shut people out and not give them the benefit of the doubt. But as said betray me and watch me turn and walk away with out a problem.... |
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Not naive..fool hearty, yes. I trust until I am given a reason not to, I have been told maybe I am going about that the opposite way. I will give the benefit of the doubt, but when I am betrayed..I have no problem walking away. Every one get a shot with me...if they blow it they lose a very loyal and caring friend. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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you have to explain that one No I'm not naive..... Yes I live knda foolheartdedly.....fly with the wind... But always know how and where I'm gonna land! ![]() |
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I don't consider myself naive. I can usually determine a persons intentions within talking to them only a few minutes. I'm rarely wrong about people. Although it has happened a few times & once here when I was used to make another woman jealous so she'd date a guy!
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I'm not naive... I'm just less crafty than most
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