Topic: TO ALL HERE!
s1owhand's photo
Sun 06/17/07 02:20 AM
The TP thread is trying...but it will never match the
length of the Tampon threads...

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Sun 06/17/07 02:21 AM
ummmm no Im just sick of my sh*tty thread !!!!! laugh laugh laugh
laugh laugh

<------hides the toilet paper

Native_Grl39's photo
Sun 06/17/07 04:32 AM
Good thread Iam...No drama for me either thanx....I come here to have
fun and I want to keep it that way!!!!!!!!





flowerforyou flowerforyou

Katertots37's photo
Sun 06/17/07 04:33 AM
Very good thread Iam...love ya too and peace

Snugglesbyfire's photo
Sun 06/17/07 04:38 AM
Wow when that man starts to grumble he really grumble

No drama wanted here...this is a great place to make friends, and have
fun...

s1owhand's photo
Sun 06/17/07 04:39 AM
if you want a good read on communication
s1owand's bookshelf recommends:

"Words that Hurt, Words that Heal"

really. nice book.

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 06/17/07 05:54 AM
Hummmmmmm, I think MAYBE what is NOT posted on post,
might STILL be happening BEHIND posts, in EMAILS to each other.


Yes it very well could be there Mr. Terry hummm and I think that Mike
made if very clear not to post it on the forums but to send the e-mails
to him so they can take care of them properly.

Dramas in GENERAL TEXSGAL, ARE ALWAYS being MADE as WE SPEAK HERE NOW!
So MY advice is for EVERYONE to SEE and KNOW and be AWARE OF for future
GOSSIPS and future DRAMAS, NOT YET HERE,,,NOW!!


That is true so why add to them or bring more attention to them.





The LAST TIME you talked to me was when you attacked me on a email
question I had to another here,, that HE took to POST,



Lets see my words to you were on a thread out in the open the person
your talking about had went on post saying they wear leaving due to an
e-mail they had received from a long time member. They refused to name
the member in the post and was telling all good by. Yes then you came on
the post yet bashing them the other refused still to speak up and say
anything about you. So yes I did have a response to the post just like
many did I guess my words just hit home a tad more than others. But
last I heard that when one post others are allowed to give there opinion
and that is what I did and only used the facts upon the post.


SHUT UP,,POLITELY OF COURSE,,,BUT STILL
WHAT TO DO or NOT TO DO,,,ANYWHERE!!!!!!


Not trying to tell you what to do only that the extra drama needs to
stay off the post as well why draw attention to what is or is not
happening in e-mails send the stuff to Mike and Van. To me all this does
is makes others wonder what is going on now. Myself I have no clue have
not heard anything for almost a week now. Others are gonna talk back and
forth in e-mails about someone not much can be done about that. No one
wants the DRAMA in the threads or any where else we come here to have
fun.



no photo
Sun 06/17/07 08:52 AM
TxsGal & Iam4u,

You both seem to want needless drama and conflict to stay off the
forums - for this reason, would you please consider taking the rest of
your conversation to private email?

After coming to an understanding in private, you can still come back
and peaceably say whatever you feel needs to be said publicly.

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Sun 06/17/07 09:09 AM
:heart: drinker smokin
Thank YOU, massagetrade, for having the compassion to SEE and READ what
would be the "BEST" thing for us to do HERE!!!!

And THAT reading ability and THOUGHT process is "WHAT" this whole thread
here was started out to SHOW, the members what
THEY should do if THEY come into THIS situration.
And Miss Texs was right to, WHEN she told me to "PLEASE STOP"
my words of HOW to deal with DRAMA,,I should have just sent HER WORDS to
me on POST, to MIKE and VAN!
And everyone here NOW has seen HOW SH1T GETS STARTED, and HOW to DEAL
with it, and NOW HOW TO END IT!!!bigsmile

Thank you ALL for your OWN PERSONAL SHOWING to all of US as to YOUR REAL
HEART and OPEN CRITICISM, We have all learned some things here and I
hope that some of YOU have also?:heart:

pkh's photo
Sun 06/17/07 09:41 AM
I don't post that much,because of remarks.But I do read alot of them.And
Iam4u please continue to post,you seem like a very kind,and sincere
man,and you and a few others I enjoy reading.

NYCgirl's photo
Sun 06/17/07 09:47 AM
Well iam4u, just by you posting this thread you are bringing the DRAMA
on. Why is it that MANY people, including you always make this kinds of
posts. It is obvious you like DRAMA just by posting this. Drama and
attention hmmmmmmm.

If you don't want drama, don't post and respond to any that causes
drama, including this thread!! I am sick of this kind of drama around
here. mad mad mad

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Sun 06/17/07 09:53 AM
what drama?--i didn't see 'em---oh yeah--i avoided them in order to turn
the page--




btw--would somone pass me me the toilet papers---

have a nice daybigsmile

NYCgirl's photo
Sun 06/17/07 09:55 AM
shadowdog!! lets change the drama here...how are you, what ya been up
to? flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sun 06/17/07 09:58 AM
well hello NYC--i'm good---just lookin for a way to sleep-since i've
been up since yesterday mornin'--

NYCgirl's photo
Sun 06/17/07 09:59 AM
why? omg without sleep, I am a mess. I am a total sleepy head :tongue:

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Sun 06/17/07 10:06 AM
aahhh- i am in a mess here----huh--what?--

TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 06/17/07 10:16 AM
Well all have a Great Day I do hope.


My message was only these type of post should not be started
to bring up about the past drama. They are uncalled for. And this is the
last I will say about this. If there is a problem with things being sent
in e-mails send them to Mike and Van let them take the proper steps to
fix the problem. bigsmile

nurjoyce's photo
Sun 06/17/07 10:21 AM
when i was younger i loved to argue and prove my point and well, win.
Now it does not matter. you allow yourself to be caught up in drama of
who said etc. by listening or by adding to it. if you do not want a part
of it step away from it. i have even said i'm sorry when i do not feel
it was my fault to avoid unneccessary hurt on either party and to remain
friends. winning is not important to me anymore. my mom use to tell me
it took "two" people to make the noise or create the indifference
because one person could not on his/her own. (like one hand could not
clap- two to make the sound)
bigsmile

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Sun 06/17/07 11:00 AM
:heart: NYC, I only started this thread to TRY TO HELP OTHERS here, with
THIS issue,,nothing was said personal yntil I was told to be quite, I
was NOT having ANY ISSUES of bad emails or
anything at all with anyone,,when I started this post,,BUT I
have MANY PEOPLE HERE, COMING TO ME FOR ADVICE??
THIS post was my way to talk to them ALL AT ONCE, and to HELP THEM,,not
ANYTHING PERSONAL FROM ME, until I was ask to shut up,,THAT IS NOT what
I want to be told to do on MY FATHERS DAY!
If you read my post, at start, you will find NO PERSONAL attention gigen
to ANYONE,,just a general post to HELP EVERYONE HERE!!:heart: :heart:
:heart: flowerforyou flowerforyou

But THANK YOU ALL for your imput, and to the cause of ANY DRAMAS here or
in ANYONES lives...:heart: :wink: :smile:

NYCgirl's photo
Sun 06/17/07 11:20 AM
Well iam4u, the fact that many gossip, drama, etc have started because
of posts like this makes me sick. Why bring more attention to the drama.
People who ask you for advise should take the advice and try to solve
their problems without involving others.

Some times I come in here and see the ridiculous posts and all about
gossip and drama. That makes me sick. I and many of us have too much
drama going on in our own lives and being here takes us away from that.
However seeing that drama is carried on here, it just makes me sick....

So my advice to you, myself and everyone...
Lets enjoy this site with our friends and if there anything that bother
us, lets resolved it as adults and not involve others.
Behind the scenes, through e-mail or by just telling Mike and Van would
be the way it should be handled. There is no need to post drama. It does
not looks good. In my case, when I see people posting drama, it makes me
see those who post it as little people who need attention.

Happy father's day and lets keep this site free of Drama.