Topic: just turned one step closer to leaving home
kellyrebz's photo
Tue 04/20/10 11:35 AM
just turned 18 last month. does god think it is bad for me to have a bf now or is it okay that im looking around

AndyBgood's photo
Tue 04/20/10 12:07 PM
Rock on!Its your life now! Like a bicycle if you fall down ya got to get back up and try again. There are no training wheels on this bike.


Just don't get all boy crazy and desperate.

You do have a life of your own and now is not the time to "get married."

Good hunting!drinker

Niover's photo
Tue 04/20/10 12:41 PM
You're an adult now & you can decide for yourself what you really want. There is actually nothing bad in having a bf but u just have to be careful so you won't get hurt. All the best

CowboyGH's photo
Tue 04/20/10 01:11 PM
age doesn't have anything to do with finding love. When it comes it comes and you need to hold onto it and not let it go. But always always keep in mind, sex and love have absolutely nothing to do with each other. It's ok to have a boyfriend but a sexual relation is only when two are married. Before two are married sex is adultery.

Malibux33's photo
Wed 04/21/10 03:50 AM
There's nothing wrong with having a boyfriend now just make sure that you have no sexual contact with him until you are married of course. God wants you to be happy he wants everyone to have love and be happy and when he puts someone special in your life be grateful and respect God by not having sexual contact with your boyfriend.

metalwing's photo
Wed 04/21/10 06:11 AM
When I was 18 I was totally confused about love and sex but I did not have a clue as to just how confused I actually was. You need to grow. BFs are fine but what looks "real" now, probably won't look so real in five years.

Relax. Go where your brain takes you, not your hormones. Try to focus on what you really want in life. More education might be a good thing.

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Thu 04/22/10 01:52 PM
drinker :banana: drinker :banana: drinker
Great comments!biggrin drinks :angel: