It is real
When there are no more questions
There can not be any more doubts
Love is a certainty
Naked souls touching
Becoming one
So there is no need to ask
What is this
Who are you
Quite simply
Love is the answer
This is how we evolved
I am the one who loves

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Ah yes, the LDR love crisis, I know. I'm 369 miles and 5 hours away from her now, again. It will be hard for us both, but we are strong enough to endure, and we will reunite soon. If we can't wait, like I said it's only a 5 hour drive, so maybe sooner than August, we'll see.

The ones who is real, will never want to change you,
they will take you as you are, They won't want you to always do, as they will be doing for you.
The ones whos fake, will demand for more, they won't care if your heart hits the floor, they like to tease and never want to please.
They flirt with dirt and lift their skirt, these are the fakes
who live to hurt.
I hope this helps you see their real, after all it is a big deal.
Good luck with finding your REAL man, ,

Love is god.. We cant see.. Only we can feel it...

Love, to me, has always been having one person in the entire world that will hold you and kiss your forehead and tell you everything will be okay. The one person that will feel as happy for you when something goes well, or as bad for you if something doesn't. Being able to let yourself become completely vulnerable to a person at times and always trust that they will not let you down and take care of you.

In my opinion love is having enough compassion for the person you love, whether it be parent, child, friend or lover, to truly understand them. To see things as they seem them, and to love them in whatever fashion they need it. To me that is love.

I've had so many epiphanies lately, maybe God is trying to tell me something. What is love? Well, it only took me 40 years, but now I know. It is when you give up your own self importance for the one you're with whether it be a husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend. You come second, and everything you do, earn, accomplish, celebrate, is for them, not you. You ask for nothing in return. You may one day, recieve nothing, but you know in your heart, you gave it 100%, and you love this person, and you will give everything for, and make whatever sacrifices you need to, to show how much you love them. You should always forgive when they fall, and pick them up, and hold them in your loving arms. You should always be honest and true, and hold nothing back, good or bad, embarassing or not. You should both learn and grow from each other, and not hold on to your own selfish needs or tastes. I now know what real love is thanks to an angel that was sent down to me. God bless her and watch over her.

I would say that this sums it up beautifully. I am so happy for the two of you. May you be an inspiration to those who have doubts that they will find the one who fits them

thanks deli, I guess I'm just an old softie, but I speak from the heart

very romantic, i used to feel that way, was a phase.." feel as happy for you when something goes well" ..i felt so happy for her when she met a guy that i let her go..guy later turned out to be a jerk though..."completely vulnerable"...huge risks in doing that, especially if the other person is not in it for your best interest....few are

roko

I look at a couple that has been married for 40, 50 or even 60 years. I am sure they could tell stories of blissful times, of hurtful times, times when they knew without a doubt they loved one another, and times when they thought that maybe they made a mistake. I look at a couple like that. Who stayed together through thick and thin, for the sole reason being that they wouldn't give up on each other. And I say to myself.....that is what love is all about.

Nowadays, people fall in love way too easily. They think they are in love, but find out later that they were wrong. You see, love take alot of work, which (sad to say) alot of people don't want to invest time into doing. For some reason, people think that love is so simple. Maybe it should be, but it isn't. Life isn't simple, and love is a part of life. The two go hand in hand when you fall in love with someone. You have to mesh your world with there's, work at it, and stick together because....and get this....YOU FREAKING LOVE ONE ANOTHER!

I don't know who I will fall in love with, or if I ever will again. But if it does happen, I know it will surprise me. I fully believe that I won't find it.....it will find me, and it will come from the one place I probably never expected it to. Love is all about committing yourself to a person that loves you for who you are, helps make you a better person, will be there for your up's and down's, and....most importantly...will stay with you and work on what you have built together so that your relationship can grow stronger. It aint 50/50. It's 100/100.