Nice advise. I'm down with that. I still don't understand why it's necessary to display the join date, and amount of posts right under a user's post pic. Seems to me like that just cheapens the relevance of posting, to a #'s comp. I mean, come'on, no'offense, but how can a user be on the site for around a couple years, and have over 20,000+ posts!?!? Unless your sitting on the computer all day long. I don't know, I love this site, and look forward to participating and being an avid user...but I'm also going to live my life and enjoy it...because, honestly, there's a much higher % of meeting someone you click with/& hitting it off, in the real world, than on any web site. But hey, What do I know!? HaHa :)

for some its just a social site...and im sure theres plenty of other different situations out there...
hang in there grasshopper....

Very well said, my friend

i have been on here for less than a year and you can see how many posts I have. I work in sales and meet alot of people in the real world. I just enjoy my friends I have made here from around the country and have learned alot from them. It doesn't mean that I don't have a life or am glued to my computer. If you start making friends and playing the games on the different threads you will be surprised how quickly the number climbs. Have fun. I would never want to lose the friends I have made here

HI I'm new about 20 minutes new. I like the idea behind the threads it gives a different perspective and a chance to see how patient people can be. That is certainly a virtue. I'm from San Diego and looking for a friend possibly a relationship... its got to start somewhere and not in my pants ;) Integrity means a lot and counts for a lot.

stay here, and you'll make many new friends....cheers!

I never look at how many posts anyone has
including myself!!

Some people live by it! Which I find hysterical!!

Post #'s mean:

ya been here 24/7/365. (that's sad)
ya been here 1 day and made over 1,000 posts
ya not here much
ya like to perv
ya not into the forums but mail alot....

It means different things for different people!!

I really don't care when ya joined. Why ya joined. How many or how little posts ya have. Really!!

...uh...ER...!
I got nothing.

hi everyone :) i'm new to this site. feel free to say hello (or don't haha, your call) xxx

Can someone help me !! I'm new and can't seem to get a pic up be gentle I'm blonde!!

If you are trying to upload from a phone, then that might be the problem. The site doesn't fully support all phones. You would need to email it to your main email address and borrow a computer to download the picture.

Join in the forums and MINGLE

This might be a dumb question, but do you have a pic of yourself saved to your computer?

howdy!

very new here would like to meet people in the Seattle area.
someone nice that can look past the fact that i'm in a wheelchair. (its a major turn off for a lot of people)

I'm new too so heres a hello!

welcome to all the new people

Welcome

hello everyone new...welcome MINGLE please..

I am up after work a late shift (bartender). Can never get to bed before 5am. Hmm. Looking for some chit chat.