So what are your thoughts on cheating spouses? Husband or Wife? What circumstances would justify seeking something outside of marriage? How far can you go before it is cheating? What are your thoughts?

One strike and you're out. No second chances. End of story. Leave.

There are NO circumstances under the sun, that in my eyes condones cheating. Period, end of sentence. If a person feels that their life with someone is that bad that they have to look elsewhere for fullment, get out of the relationship first, then find a new playmate.

As far as my thoughts on cheating spouses, they should be drawn and quartered. That way it saves the next person they hook up with a lot of heart ache.

It is never ok to cheat.

If things are that bad, a person needs to pull up their adult pants and leave their SO or spouse.

Cheating is selfish. If a person truly cares, they won’t be a COWARD.

I have no sympathy for people that whine about how bad they THINK life is with another person. Gee, they should have made better choices! If their situation changed drastically (and out of their hands) then that person should still be mature enough to manage their life responsibly – and for those with whom they are involved.

I feel sorry the children of cheaters. How sad is it that their parents are not good role models. No wonder we have so many vicious circles of pathology in our society.

I loathe cheaters, liars and thieves.

100% agreed

My answers, respectively:

They suck.
Doesn't matter. Neither should.
None.
As far as you want as long as you're not my husband.
I just gave them.

my ex hubby cheated before during and after
and i put up with his crap... after kicking him out of the house 4 times knowing he wasent going to change. was enough..
while i was pg with my son i let a friend of mine stay with us for she was having issue in her marriage and the next day she called me for she had a class she had to go to and told me what my ex hubby(bf at the time) tried to do for he was trying to get down her pants all might and she kept pushing away from him. while i was on the phone with her i comfronte him and he laughed about it. i told him while i was on the phone with my friend that i belive her over him for i knew him better he didnt say much after that.
while we were ceberated he gottogether with this one lady and they had a child together and he cheated on her with his wife. we wernt even divorced yet when this all came about... he told his wife(gf) that we were divorced when we wernt yet. he told her i burned his clothes which i never did. and he told her he threw me down the downs.. THAT NEVER HAPPEN!!!!! only person that fell down the staire was this little girl i was babysitting for.... he has always been a cronic lyer. .i dont talk to him unless i have to
when our son was in the hospitol and we didnt know if he was going to make it... i actually had to haress his dad to come down to see his son, he finally came down brought his wife and daughter and i sware his daughter had more freaken brains than he did


i will tell you what i did to him i actually kicked him in the jewels.. YEPPERS!! he deserved it and i would do it again if someone i would be with tried to think they could do that to me again

Cheating is any amount of energy and emotions (obviously physical too) a person invests in another person other than their spouse.

Affairs of the heart, of the mind, and internet affairs are all cheating if they are sharing intimate thoughts and secrets or seeking comfort with another.

Zero...no excuse for it...cheers

None. If the marriage/relationship is unhappy, you end things and then move on, but not until then.

Cheating is wrong period. No excuse.

Thanks...you just saved me alot of time...


On this one I only have to write thankx...with u on this...

I'm confused as to why you even have to ask this question...

lots of questions,,, lets see

I think cheating is a terrible betrayal of marital vows.
I think it is no less horrible for a wife than a husband.
Nothing justifies seeking sexual relations outside the marriage.
To me, cheating requires physical contact and it has gone too far.
I think cheating can be a mistake, like anything else, which can be forgiven if the one who cheated is truly remorseful enough to not repeat their actions. Of course, I dont agree with sticking in a relationship with no trust so it totally depends upon what requirements each of us have when it comes to trust....can it be lost and if so can it be re gained.? For me,, it can be re gained through hard work and sincere humility..

No you're not...

simple answer...shoot em...

Have you ever tried LSD?

I was wondering the same thing

cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone. believe me, i know from a lot of experience. i must be a magnet for girls who just like to cheat...lol. to me it feels like they just punched you in the chest so hard that there hand goes right through and they grab your heart. once they have ahold of your heart, they squeeze the life out of it. this whole time you are wondering what you did to deserve this (because in your mind it must be your fault, or why else would they cheat). then you stupidly try to get them back (and yes thats the stupidest thing you can do, the best thing is to kick them to the curb and never ever ever date that person again) its all just a big mess. the best way to keep it from being a mess is to not cheat...everyone repeat after me CHEATING IS WRONG!...lol