Topic: SO CONFUSED.
no photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:12 PM
good because once you do tell him that make sure you follow it

do not sleep with him, make out with him, date him anything until he is
divorced do not do the " I'm waiting for the right time, but ir eally
love you" kind of thing with him cause he'll never go through with it,
make sure he isn't just creepin and if he isn't getting what he needs
from his wife then he should have already divorced her.. all im saying
is treat others as you would like to be treated...

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:16 PM
WEll girl I'm not downing you for doing it we all get caught up in life
at times. But make sure when you tell him that no contact after that for
most likely he will tell you he is gonna leave her just give him some
time. Famous words just to keep ya in the sack with him he will not
honor that. For he has no intentions of leaving his wife and kid. 90%
of the time they men never leave them its the wives that leave after
they find out.

SheNerd's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:17 PM
Txs you are so right about that one.

hells_angel07's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:18 PM
yea..true.. i just need someone really badly and i fell in atrap..that
most likley will hurt by the end of tommrow.. but oh.......well.. life
goes on

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:21 PM
Well girl I lived that book and it was not fun at all it sad but soo
true funny thing they all seem to use the same lines.
I had two kids at home at the time and hell we had sex at least 4 times
a week go figure would not doubt one bit that he did not tell them that
him and his wife did not have sex anymore shsssssssssh they want to play
the game but ....... don't realize it all ends in heartbreak no matter
how you read the book. It all comes to an end

Zapchaser's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:23 PM
At 19 what you need is to find yourself. Hate to sound like a dad, but I
am one. You have it figured out. bigsmile drinker drinker
drinker

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:25 PM
Girl we all need someone really bad. But we have to learn to love
ourselves and be happy with us first. I have been divorced 16 years now
raised my two kids on my own they're grown now and for once I feel it is
my time now. But we all want someone to and extent, But make sure the
one you end up really just wants you love is not sharing your bed with
several it is sharing your bed with only one the one that is your
everything.

hells_angel07's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:25 PM
well.. i don't even know you.. and you give more advice to me than my
parents and they are bearly around anymore...

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:28 PM
Well I'm really sorry to hear that truly am for my kids and I are close
they are 22 & 24 now very well adjusted and they know right were they
can reach me anytime of the day or night and would be there in a
heartbeat for them.

hells_angel07's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:32 PM
l thanks guys.. but i ned to get ot bed.. i will ttyl

Zapchaser's photo
Fri 06/15/07 10:36 PM
Sorry to hear that. I raised my two sons and my daughter on my own and
we are very close. Sounds wierd but I am sure all of us old farts would
be happy to help with answers to your questions but the real answer has
to come from you. Listen to the advice of many and use it or throw it
away. Like I tell my kids, I have made the stupid mistakes for them and
hopefully I can help them avoid the same mistakes.

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 06/16/07 12:09 PM
Hellsangel, just walk away. He is married. If he wants out, he is
grown.

I've been the married woman who was cheated and lied to. It took years
to get thru the bitterness.

You are too young and cute to deal with someone else's leftovers.

Shenerd, I need mokey hugs!!!

Native_Grl39's photo
Sat 06/16/07 12:12 PM
Married anyone is TROUBLE...Even if he did leave his wife consider
this...Who is it you are getting????...A CHEATER!!!!!!


flowerforyou drinker

mnhiker's photo
Sun 06/17/07 05:18 PM
noway noway noway

Puffins1958's photo
Wed 06/20/07 01:41 PM
hells...

I hope that you made the decision to move on with your life. In the long
run...you will just have your heart broken, and that is NOT fair for you
yo go through


brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart

Kens_Barbie's photo
Wed 06/20/07 02:04 PM
Move on...he does not belong to you, he belongs to HER as long as they
are married. Besides, if he will do this to her what makes you think he
won't do it to you? Just food for thought ohwell

Good luck, HellsAngel flowerforyou

Lakeman's photo
Wed 06/20/07 02:17 PM
Good choice Hell's..He will do the same to you when he gets bored. Some
guys need what they call a little strange on the side. Once they do it
the first time, they will not stop. He will cheat on you as well. Think
about it. He has a baby and a wife that he has no problem with cheating
on now. You are not anything different 5 years down the road.

Lakeman's photo
Wed 06/20/07 02:25 PM
Hell's your hormones are just getting the best of you.Go find a single
man. There are a million of them out there to choose from. Do a local
search on this site and you will find a ton of them. Start with a 25
mile search so you can have someone close enough to drop by and take
your mind off this other guy.drinker drinker

iRon's photo
Wed 06/20/07 02:27 PM
Helping destroying a family is a horrible and horrific event for one to
take part in. Not to mention Karma is not kind to those who participate
in that destruction of a family.

Lakeman's photo
Wed 06/20/07 02:56 PM
Adultry is a CRIME! If convicted you can go to jail!!!!