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good because once you do tell him that make sure you follow it
do not sleep with him, make out with him, date him anything until he is divorced do not do the " I'm waiting for the right time, but ir eally love you" kind of thing with him cause he'll never go through with it, make sure he isn't just creepin and if he isn't getting what he needs from his wife then he should have already divorced her.. all im saying is treat others as you would like to be treated... |
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WEll girl I'm not downing you for doing it we all get caught up in life
at times. But make sure when you tell him that no contact after that for most likely he will tell you he is gonna leave her just give him some time. Famous words just to keep ya in the sack with him he will not honor that. For he has no intentions of leaving his wife and kid. 90% of the time they men never leave them its the wives that leave after they find out. |
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Txs you are so right about that one.
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yea..true.. i just need someone really badly and i fell in atrap..that
most likley will hurt by the end of tommrow.. but oh.......well.. life goes on |
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Well girl I lived that book and it was not fun at all it sad but soo
true funny thing they all seem to use the same lines. I had two kids at home at the time and hell we had sex at least 4 times a week go figure would not doubt one bit that he did not tell them that him and his wife did not have sex anymore shsssssssssh they want to play the game but ....... don't realize it all ends in heartbreak no matter how you read the book. It all comes to an end |
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At 19 what you need is to find yourself. Hate to sound like a dad, but I
am one. You have it figured out. |
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Girl we all need someone really bad. But we have to learn to love
ourselves and be happy with us first. I have been divorced 16 years now raised my two kids on my own they're grown now and for once I feel it is my time now. But we all want someone to and extent, But make sure the one you end up really just wants you love is not sharing your bed with several it is sharing your bed with only one the one that is your everything. |
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well.. i don't even know you.. and you give more advice to me than my
parents and they are bearly around anymore... |
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Well I'm really sorry to hear that truly am for my kids and I are close
they are 22 & 24 now very well adjusted and they know right were they can reach me anytime of the day or night and would be there in a heartbeat for them. |
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l thanks guys.. but i ned to get ot bed.. i will ttyl
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Sorry to hear that. I raised my two sons and my daughter on my own and
we are very close. Sounds wierd but I am sure all of us old farts would be happy to help with answers to your questions but the real answer has to come from you. Listen to the advice of many and use it or throw it away. Like I tell my kids, I have made the stupid mistakes for them and hopefully I can help them avoid the same mistakes. |
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Hellsangel, just walk away. He is married. If he wants out, he is
grown. I've been the married woman who was cheated and lied to. It took years to get thru the bitterness. You are too young and cute to deal with someone else's leftovers. Shenerd, I need mokey hugs!!! |
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Married anyone is TROUBLE...Even if he did leave his wife consider
this...Who is it you are getting????...A CHEATER!!!!!! |
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hells...
I hope that you made the decision to move on with your life. In the long run...you will just have your heart broken, and that is NOT fair for you yo go through |
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Move on...he does not belong to you, he belongs to HER as long as they
are married. Besides, if he will do this to her what makes you think he won't do it to you? Just food for thought Good luck, HellsAngel |
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Good choice Hell's..He will do the same to you when he gets bored. Some
guys need what they call a little strange on the side. Once they do it the first time, they will not stop. He will cheat on you as well. Think about it. He has a baby and a wife that he has no problem with cheating on now. You are not anything different 5 years down the road. |
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Hell's your hormones are just getting the best of you.Go find a single
man. There are a million of them out there to choose from. Do a local search on this site and you will find a ton of them. Start with a 25 mile search so you can have someone close enough to drop by and take your mind off this other guy. |
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Helping destroying a family is a horrible and horrific event for one to
take part in. Not to mention Karma is not kind to those who participate in that destruction of a family. |
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Adultry is a CRIME! If convicted you can go to jail!!!!
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