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ok, i am at a total loss for words on this subject... depending on my
schedule, i might have a date on tuesday for coffee, but i met this guy on a dating site, i dont know how i should look, (i was thinking jeans and a t shirt), and i sure as hell dont know what to talk about, and when i get nervous i start babbling on about stupid shit... please help on topics... and if you have any advice.... please... |
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Two words-Be yourself
wear what makes you comfortable and ask him questions-You'll find out how much you have in common or how much you dont. Just be you- If you try to be something your not youll spend your dating life trying to live up to that and wont be happy. Your perfect the way you are. |
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thank you, i usually dont have this problem, but this is the first time
im actually meeting someone i met on the internet... and i hope i dont make myself look stupid, one more question, if i get there first, do i satnd up and shake his hand, or just stay sitting and say hi? |
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Just be yourself, If he doesnt accept that fuck him!! KNow you are ok
just as you are and enjoy yourself, I know I get nervous also but it does go away within like 5 minutes lol Have fun!! but also be careful please. |
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I can only say what everyone else has said.
BE YOURSELF. If you're nervous that's ok. Tell him you're nervous. He will be as nervous as you I guarantee. Don't prep yourself on what to say. Don't rehearse anything. Just go with the flow. Good luck! |
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I were just myself on my first date with a guy on the site we truly just
talk about what we been through in finding someone special. I have to amount I did go out with some guys would exspected me to give it up on the first date, but I did't I'm not type of woman:) |
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just go out and have a nice time.
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just be yourself samantha. from the few posts that i have seen you come
across as down to earth and thoughtful, you'll be fine. it can be hard to get a feel for who someone really is if they are tryin to impress all the time. |
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hey Samantha just be yourself and have fun he shouldnt expect anymore
then that |
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thank you all, i appreciate it... its tuesday... and ill tell yall how
it goes |
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ok, well... its happened again... but this time i got stood up before i
even left the house... oh well... i have to work tonight, so that means a lil extra sleep...lol...hiss loss. thank you all for the advice. |
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JUST BE YOUR SELF AND KEEP IT REAL...DONT TRY TO IMPRESS THEM.HE SHOULD
LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE.TRY NOT TO PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE ELSE-AGAIN,JUST RELAX AND BE YOUR SELF...YOU CAN DO IT!BEST WISHES- sINCERELY DEBBIE m |
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You got stood up before leaving the house... ha ha, thats kinda funny.
I have a first date tonight also... (dating my ex-girlfriends friend) Volumes 1&2. Volume 3 the date goes domn tonight, she has called this morning to confirm. I will give a stunning report about the details tomorrow. |
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