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Topic: i think i been single way to long
Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Mon 04/05/10 03:24 PM
the longer one is single, the harder it is to find the 'motivation' to want to 'work' on another relationship,,and all relationship require some work eh, I don't think so. After 10 years I have more motivation than I did before. I like to think now I want it for the right reasons, wasn't so years ago.

Leon100 Joined Sat 04/03/10 Posts: 70	Mon 04/05/10 03:28 PM
You dont find love, IT FINDS YOU. You should always take a chance on it if you get one [/quote it will happen when i least expect it...and it should be like that Would you want it any other way? That moment when you can hear your heart beat in your ears... there is no escape... you cannot run, you cannot hide... it just happens and a rush of blood hits you like a tsunami

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 04/05/10 03:49 PM
Honestly I meet really cool guys who will probably make some woman very happy someday. I just meet them when they are having major life issues or are just not grown up enough (yet) to deal with what I have to offer. Long story short I have the WORST timing ever. That sounds a lot like how things go with me as well.

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 03:51 PM
You dont find love, IT FINDS YOU. You should always take a chance on it if you get one [/quote it will happen when i least expect it...and it should be like that Would you want it any other way? That moment when you can hear your heart beat in your ears... there is no escape... you cannot run, you cannot hide... it just happens and a rush of blood hits you like a tsunami yes i want to feel that tsunami :-) very well put hun :-)

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:33 PM
i have an idea lets change the topic for a bit to jealousy? what makes woman so jealous good topic i think

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 04/05/10 05:37 PM Edited by JustAGuy2112 on Mon 04/05/10 05:39 PM
i have an idea lets change the topic for a bit to jealousy? what makes woman so jealous good topic i think What makes them jealous?? Trust issues. I used to be a DJ...and one of my ex's was always telling that " It's not that I don't trust YOU. I just don't trust THEM. " To me, that means nothing more than that she didn't trust ME and trust that I know where the " lines " are drawn. I think part of it might be self esteem issues, too.

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:38 PM
lets see how many people can be actually honest

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:39 PM
i have an idea lets change the topic for a bit to jealousy? what makes woman so jealous good topic i think What makes them jealous?? Trust issues. I used to be a DJ...and one of my ex's was always telling that " It's not that I don't trust YOU. I just don't trust THEM. " To me, that means nothing more than that she didn't trust ME and trust that I know where the " lines " are drawn. how does one become jealous of somebody they dont know

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 04/05/10 05:40 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are.

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:43 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are. so lets see i cant change how kind i am or how i look so why should i have to deal with somebody else insecurities about them self's

heavenlyboy34 Joined Fri 07/04/08 Posts: 17348	Mon 04/05/10 05:44 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are. so lets see i cant change how kind i am or how i look so why should i have to deal with somebody else insecurities about them self's You shouldn't-you should go on being your awesome self!

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 04/05/10 05:45 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are. so lets see i cant change how kind i am or how i look so why should i have to deal with somebody else insecurities about them self's Exactly. That's why, when I meet someone, I try to find out if they are the jealous type. I'm a friendly guy. I like to try to make people smile. The last thing I need is someone getting all wigged out every time I talk to a cashier or something.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 04/05/10 05:46 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are. so lets see i cant change how kind i am or how i look so why should i have to deal with somebody else insecurities about them self's You shouldn't-you should go on being your awesome self! Dude....enough with the slurpfest already. Sheesh. lol

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:46 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are. so lets see i cant change how kind i am or how i look so why should i have to deal with somebody else insecurities about them self's Exactly. That's why, when I meet someone, I try to find out if they are the jealous type. I'm a friendly guy. I like to try to make people smile. The last thing I need is someone getting all wigged out every time I talk to a cashier or something. i can understand that trust me

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Mon 04/05/10 05:47 PM
By thinking that, no matter what, there is always someone better, prettier, nicer....whatever, than they are. so lets see i cant change how kind i am or how i look so why should i have to deal with somebody else insecurities about them self's You shouldn't-you should go on being your awesome self! Dude....enough with the slurpfest already. Sheesh. lol

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:49 PM
so should it be my fault people like me cause im nice considerate and caring should that allow somebody to freak out lol lol

Gina_The_Italian Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 641	Mon 04/05/10 05:50 PM
so i should be mean is that the way? hmmmmm

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 04/05/10 05:51 PM
so should it be my fault people like me cause im nice considerate and caring should that allow somebody to freak out lol lol No. It shouldn't. But, there is absolutely nothing that you can do about it. You can only be yourself. If that bothers someone else, that's not your issue.

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Mon 04/05/10 05:51 PM
Gina, how someone feels about you is their problem, how you feel about them- and how you react to them- is your problem. Be yourself, if someone doesn't like you because of who you are, that's their issue. Try not to let it bother you.

JustAGuy2112 Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 18033	Mon 04/05/10 05:52 PM
so i should be mean is that the way? hmmmmm Nope. Because, from what I've seen, that would be going against your nature. That never works.