Hullo! New to this site and am enjoying it very much so far, the people are definitely friendly and sweet. (Ahem) Enough chit chat, My wonderful friend seems to have a problem that I myself keep pondering on. When are we really ready to move on into a differnet relationship? I couldn't exactly tell the poor thing "you just know", It's such a cliche answer, and I didn't want to add any more stress on her head. You will always have the feeling to mingle but who does your heart really belong to? I couldn't just say "yourself" because she isn't me... Anyone who could possibly help? <3

if you're thinking about it, you're ready.

Welcome! In my opinion, you simply try to "get your feet wet" by getting back out there again, and if it doesn't feel right, you wait a little while longer, then try again. Sometimes it takes longer to heal than you realize. Hope that helps a little...

It's true.
And not a minute sooner.

, Anyone here??

oops! I think i accidently reported your post sugar So sorry. I was trying to reply. I was trying to say I do understand that but i also get the wanting to move on and still thinking about other relationships. You know? I suppose that is exactly what she is confused about. Thanks love. :)

No one can move on if they are still stuck in the past.

When you stop replying to ads on craigslist and move over to Mingle2 (gratuitous post)