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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other?
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I think both should be understanding and should respect that
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I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them.
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Agrees with Kim.
And believes in getting rid of one or the other if people can't share. Control issues are a problem. |
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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other? S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.? JMO . . . |
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I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them. . . . |
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Kim's right...
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I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them. . . . Did yours want you to be their secret friend and get together behind your back for outings and then tell you about it later? |
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I'm right!!!! woo hoo
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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other? S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.? JMO . . . Thank you! Finally someone who agrees with me! This is why my last relationship ended; because he would rather hang out with his friends than me. So I just wanted to get other opinions on the subject. lol. |
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I'm not sure, I've never had a relationship, and I got rid of my friends. I'd like to think if I had both, I'd try to make equal time for them. . . . Did yours want you to be their secret friend and get together behind your back for outings and then tell you about it later? nope, mine all wanted to do things to make me look bad so that they would look good. so, i kicked 'em all to the curb. but, also no relationships. . . . |
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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other? Doesn't matter, usually the 'significant other' is buried under my...err, sorry, erhm...oh, yes, I left something on the stove... |
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there has to be a balance...sometimes it's a fine line. You don't get rid of friends but the new SO is important too.
Both the friends and SO should understand that. If they don't then they have the problem. |
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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other? S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.? JMO . . . Thank you! Finally someone who agrees with me! This is why my last relationship ended; because he would rather hang out with his friends than me. So I just wanted to get other opinions on the subject. lol. you also have to realize that you're young and that most people don't understand this sort of thing until they're older if ever. i just realize that i'm never going to be everything to somebody. as long as i'm a large part of their life, that's cool with me. . . . |
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I'm right!!!! woo hoo you don't have to brag about it. . . . |
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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other? Doesn't matter, usually the 'significant other' is buried under my...err, sorry, erhm...oh, yes, I left something on the stove... Cooking Nice Guy again? |
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each has a place and neither should affect the other.
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I'm right!!!! woo hoo you don't have to brag about it. . . . She's not bragging darlin', she's just SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad she's finally right... |
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I'm right!!!! woo hoo you don't have to brag about it. . . . She's not bragging darlin', she's just SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad she's finally right... |
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Do you believe that your friends should come first or your significant other? S.O. and if you're friends are really friends, they'll get it. but you should never blow off plans with one for the other. if you have something pre-arranged with one, the other should respect that. besides, who are you going to eventually walk down the aisle with, your friends or your S.O.? JMO . . . Thank you! Finally someone who agrees with me! This is why my last relationship ended; because he would rather hang out with his friends than me. So I just wanted to get other opinions on the subject. lol. you also have to realize that you're young and that most people don't understand this sort of thing until they're older if ever. i just realize that i'm never going to be everything to somebody. as long as i'm a large part of their life, that's cool with me. . . . Yeah. =/ I don't want to be someone's everything because that's asking for too much, but I would like to have someone appreciate me. |
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