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Topic: dirty little secrets....
ScarletDrawl's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:34 PM
my secret is that i have cancer but only one person knows. i havent even told my father...

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Sun 03/14/10 05:37 PM

my secret is that i have cancer but only one person knows. i havent even told my father...


OMG! I don't even know what to say. I hope you are okay and dealing with it. You definitely will get support on here from these great people! May God bless you sweetie! :heart: flowerforyou

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Sun 03/14/10 05:38 PM
I'll be praying for youflowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou ...


You definitely need a support system, telling your Dad may be the first stepflowerforyou

ScarletDrawl's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:39 PM
aww thanks. i wasnt realy asking for sympathy. just posting my secret! lol

delilady's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:42 PM
You have my prayers and I agree you should tell your Dad. As a parent that is something I would want to know and help my child in whatever way I couldflowerforyou

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Sun 03/14/10 05:46 PM
Stay strong, kiddo.

My "secret" is that I write poems and leave them on tables at the school I used to go to... hoping somebody will get something out of them. I don't know why.

ScarletDrawl's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:46 PM
he and i dont really talk. he tried to steal $200 from me when i was 17...

FETTS61's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:46 PM
yes i have a daughter your age and ive been thru 10 surgeries with her....please tell himflowerforyou my secret is i get lost in lifetime movies

ScarletDrawl's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:56 PM
i wish my dad and i could be closer but everytime i get close he always uses me for money.

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Sun 03/14/10 05:58 PM
Write it all down.
You mentioned this and him together... which makes me think you want him to know.

Just go in with no money and an open heart.

One day it won't be an option. Trust me.

Teditis's photo
Sun 03/14/10 05:59 PM

i wish my dad and i could be closer but everytime i get close he always uses me for money.

That's rough... double tough.
Hi and Welcome too, brave one...flowerforyou

delilady's photo
Sun 03/14/10 06:02 PM

i wish my dad and i could be closer but everytime i get close he always uses me for money.
Sometimes parents need a reality check. We can behave just as badly as teenagers at times but most when it comes to something like your child being sick will get their act together and be there. Tell him and if he doesn't get his act together at least you tried. Hopefully he will surprise you and be there for you. You won't know til you try!

Tessa02's photo
Sun 03/14/10 06:02 PM
I'm really sorry to hear. Hope you are getting treatment, etc & that it's not terminal. Makes any of my secrets dull in comparison.

Roco's photo
Sun 03/14/10 06:08 PM
that secret is neither dirty nor is it little..

cancer -- how unfortunate



the worst secret i have is that I'm a sex addict...sure wish they had something that had the opposite effect of viagra...

roko

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Sun 03/14/10 06:25 PM
My secret is that I learned to keep all my secrets to myself.

If you can't tell your dad about your secret, try telling a friend or someone close that you trust. I've never been in your situation, but they say a support system is very helpful in your recovery. flowerforyou

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Sun 03/14/10 07:10 PM
My secret is that I am two different people. I'm known by birth name with my family while the public knows my pen name.

lovet0havefun's photo
Sun 03/14/10 07:23 PM
DADDY....

DADDY WASNT THERE...

DADDY..

DADDY WASNT THERE

TO TAKE ME TO THE FAIR! TO CHANGE MY UNDERWARE!

IT SEEMS HE DOESNT CARE!!!!

DADDY WASNT THERE!!

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Sun 03/14/10 07:38 PM


i wish my dad and i could be closer but everytime i get close he always uses me for money.
Sometimes parents need a reality check. We can behave just as badly as teenagers at times but most when it comes to something like your child being sick will get their act together and be there. Tell him and if he doesn't get his act together at least you tried. Hopefully he will surprise you and be there for you. You won't know til you try!


I totally agree with this! Parents are humans too and we screw up. Give him a chance. flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 03/14/10 07:40 PM
I have things I don't tell people because it's none of their business...but I don't have any secrets. Life is too short for secrets.

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 03/14/10 08:17 PM
I can't say what my secrets are...I bury them under my stoop at night...

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