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| Topic: Do you let youeself get emotionally Attached? | |
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Those kinds of people are nothing but scamers. Hey Shadow,,I had a Russian girl DO THIS... and NOW I know how to read their fake stuff so I just report them to the site,,hell,I think I have had about 12 on report,,most around that same time on here,,,two years ago...? but I would tell them,,HEY,,,I AM SORRY BUT THIS CANNOT HAPPEN,,! End of story and tell-um HOW CAN YOU EVEN THINK THIS??? As we have never even met nor talked of really meeting?? So,,,I'd say goodbye and end of story as they MUST be crazy,,or a scammer?????? |
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I met a couple different women on the net, and what happened, happened with both of them. It started out harmless flirting, then went into a little roll playing. I'm find with this, but there is a limit to things with me being on the net "and I let them know this." I'm here to meet people and have fun. Next thing I know as time goes on the conversations start getting a little more serious. Still, i'm fine with this, there is nothing wrong in sharing with somone and to me it's a part of life on how we grow and learn things. Then the table turns from being a friend and having a little fun, to this person wanting me to get emotionally attached to them. Now, on a normal situation to where the person is in my area or where I can meet them face to face. I might consider getting a little close to them if we can actually spent time together. This situation is where the person lives out of the states and we will never meet, but is pushing for me to get emotionally attached to them, and stating that they are already emotionally attached to me. Sorry, but this will never happen with me on someone I will never meet face to face. It's false feelings to me. Has this ever happen to you on the net? If so, how did you deal with it? If not, how would you think you would deal with it? First time something like this happened to me was in 1999. I was on the verge of a divorce and had only about 4 years experience on the net in this virtual world. Define: virtual because it was very real to me. The green looked greener on the other side of the fence because the marriage was on the rocks. This person I was communicating with came acroos if she, too was dealing with a similiar condition. She created this whole world and I became a part of it. Actually, she was a person in her world after I found out a few of her aliases. She created this person she thought I would like and she was right on the money. After 7 days though she did get emotionally attached and as emotionally attached as I was to her character she created which may not have been her. Then she got jealous of me with her character and told me who she really was which was a friend I thought I knew. Her character was everything she couldn't be in real life and at times I still wonder who she really was. Found out that I didn't make a good master in a master slave relationship. She did find a good master though, later. It just wasn't me. Later when I got emotionally involved was during my grieving stage. One female friend pointed out to me that I just fall in love too easily and too fast. I have forgotten at times that it is virtual because it just seems so real. I contribute this too my highly creative capacity cause I sure can fill in the blanks. 
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A while ago i split up with my long term partner and enevetably i was down in the dumps and one day i was flicking through a newas paper when i saw a text dating network advertised .So i sent a profile and eventually got a few replies and got talking to a girl and we exchanged numbers.What a mistake ,she used to ring me 24/7,txt all the time ,she told me she loved me and we,d never even seen each other.In the end I had to change my phone.
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