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Topic: friends with benefits
TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76455	Mon 03/01/10 08:58 AM
Hummm so in the other thread many said they would not have a friends with benefit relationship. But........now some of those same ones are saying that it is okay to have those if you think they will turn into a relationship ..... Hummmm this is a bit confusing....................

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Mon 03/01/10 09:07 AM Edited by TxsSun on Mon 03/01/10 09:43 AM
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FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 03/01/10 11:20 AM
Hummm so in the other thread many said they would not have a friends with benefit relationship. But........now some of those same ones are saying that it is okay to have those if you think they will turn into a relationship ..... Hummmm this is a bit confusing.................... I'm with you...confusing bit, isn't it? Personally, friends with benefits is useless. Never has, never will, and I don't even see logically how it can work.

misswright Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 1893	Mon 03/01/10 12:05 PM
Do u think starting off as friends with benefit can ruin a lasting relationship This "friends with benefits" concept doesn't exist in my world. I have male friends that I don't have sex with. Or I'm having sex with one person and I consider that a relationship. There's no commitment until he becomes my fiance or husband, so he can do what he wants but I choose to sleep with only one person at a time. Am I his friend with benefits or his girlfriend? This is precisely why I don't label relationships or people.

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 03/02/10 06:20 AM
I had a fwb relationship we had booty calls when needed (nice girls get horny too!!) haha after we were satisfied we remained freinds 24/7 we didn't love each other. Didn't want a relationship it was good sex if your over 21. Really your sexuality is yours everyone has diff opinions on the subject let's just respect them me I see nothing wrong with it if you do I respect your opinion

GummiBear Joined Thu 10/16/08 Posts: 1245	Tue 03/02/10 06:31 AM
depends on the friend.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 03/02/10 06:40 AM
How else would you start......... technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Tue 03/02/10 06:48 AM
Hummm so in the other thread many said they would not have a friends with benefit relationship. But........now some of those same ones are saying that it is okay to have those if you think they will turn into a relationship ..... Hummmm this is a bit confusing.................... it's funny to see some of these post. FWB to me is what it is and that's FWB and nothing more.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32401	Tue 03/02/10 06:49 AM
Do u think starting off as friends with benefit can ruin a lasting relationship Sometimes yes, sometimes no. My philosophy is that if you are worried about something it's because you know there is something to worry about.

heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sun 03/07/10 05:01 PM
It wouldn't work for me... Sounds too high school, IMO......

LeighAnna9 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 5638	Sun 03/07/10 07:10 PM
It wouldn't work for me... Sounds too high school, IMO......

janeh Joined Wed 03/18/09 Posts: 189	Sun 03/07/10 07:19 PM
In theory this sounds good, but one of the tow will start to have more emotional feelings then the other and this is where things will go wrong.

D156 Joined Sun 03/07/10 Posts: 326	Sun 03/07/10 07:22 PM
Do u think starting off as friends with benefit can ruin a lasting relationship NO ID RATHER BE FRIENDS WIT BENAFITS

Kings_Knight Joined Sat 01/31/09 Posts: 3718	Thu 03/11/10 04:49 PM
I have the friend, I'm just waiting for the benefits. Did I mention that I'm a 'benefits provider' ... ? I'm just sayin' ...

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Thu 03/11/10 04:53 PM
How else would you start......... technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period Makes sense to me but you know women. They always got to think to god damn much........

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 03/11/10 04:56 PM
How else would you start......... technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period Makes sense to me but you know women. They always got to think to god damn much........ pffft

jlove43 Joined Mon 02/22/10 Posts: 5849	Thu 03/11/10 04:57 PM
How else would you start......... technically this is a true statement.if you read most profiles ,well from what i've read in womens profiles, they state "friends first".plus most adult women will have sex during this "friends first" time period Makes sense to me but you know women. They always got to think to god damn much........ pffft double pffft.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Thu 03/11/10 05:00 PM
I just got a double pffft.......

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 03/11/10 05:02 PM
I just got a double pffft....... yep, you did, but don't THINK so much about it...

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Thu 03/11/10 05:09 PM
I just got a double pffft....... yep, you did, but don't THINK so much about it... I gotcha. You are being polite and telling me to shut the f!ck up....