I am new to this, how the heck do you get respones with out a photo

Get a picture.. it's easy and you don't spend a lot of meny doing it.
most people are visual. I am, and not to say that looks is what matters.
Only that you don't have that gangster look, tough guy look, mean guy
look, molester look... it means a lot to any woman to be comfortable
chatting with some one that at least pleasant, not alarming. Size in
this case does not matter, features do not matter, it is your heart that
tells so much about you, but you have to have a decent appearence to at
least let others find the real you

you need to get a pic.it is bad enough we have to chat to a pic,but to
have no pic is like talking to a wall.

I would just use a "dummie" pic like an avatar like mine until you get
one of yourself. Even though it's not a pic of you, it's still
something.

so what if you look like a thug or a chester but you're not, your
screwed huh. lol

hmmm I wonder what king looks like???

lmao, definitely like a thug or a chester. i finally got a picture but
i'm having trouble getting it on here, it'll be up soon.

hmmm I am sure that you don't look like a thug or a chester..I have
always went by the inside of someone, not the outside!!

I dont think People should alway's judge a book by it's cover.look at my
pics I look like if im a gangmemeber or someone thugish,But im not!This
is just how I look Im being myself.I have tattoos all over my body and
want even more.Yeah it contributes to the sterio typing people are
acustommed too these day's,but that just means that they haven't
accepted the real world of the different life styles and look's of real
people!Ive know some of the meanest looking people out there,But when
you get to know them' they're caracter don't match they're looks.They
are actually very humble and pleasant people to know Just like myself!I
sometimes find myself explaining to others that hey I nkow that I might
look different to them because of my piercings all of my tattoos and
because i keep a balled head with an earring in my ear,But that's my
look im original.My heart my soul and my caracter is the most important
part of my book not my cover.Anyway's good luck to all who has been
sterio typed againsed with out getting a chance to really be
known!Joe_angel69666.

what's up joe, i agree with you especially about the part about people
who stereo type aren't in touch with the different people in the world,
good luck


i meant to put don't look like a thug or a chester but i left out the
not lol so i guess the jokes on me

You know, I do think that people do judge people by the outside..I use
to be one of those people! But over the years, I have learned not to do
that! My son who is 18 is also into the piercings, and I hope that
people do not judge him, because he is really a good kid! So its not
good to judge a book by its cover, you have to dig deep inside and see
what inside that book.
I have explained to my son that people do look at the outside though.
Mark is into computers and he is certified with Microsoft, so his
teacher sends him out to do jobs for doctors, lawyers, businesses. So
his teacher tells him that he is not allowed to wear his earrings...so
yes, you are right, they do judge him by his piercings and I tried to
explain this to him. The world is not a perfect place...it never will
be!!

i get plenty of response, from others, sometimes people like their
curiousity arouse, besides what comes out of our thinking, is within us
not the outside cover

also half the time the picture, is not who we are talking to.

Getting a picture would be the easiest answer to your question.