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Wed 02/24/10 06:15 PM
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Hi Vivian, Jan, Bill and Tim. Just wanted to say hi but I'm not staying long. It has been a bad day. Brian got a rejection letter from the college he wants to go to and won't talk to me
give him his space, I know as a mom you want to fix things but guys need space at times
Thanks Tim. I know. He went slamming out of here. I know he needs his space but I am just afraid that he is going to just let the next 3 months of school go downhill and not graduate. My son Jimmy said he will talk to him so I will let him handle it. It's just really hard. His father is no help when it comes to education
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Wed 02/24/10 06:16 PM
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Hi Jayne Viv Carol Jan Bill
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Wed 02/24/10 06:16 PM
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sorry if I got a bit pissy last night just seams to be a bad week
It's OK, Tim....
we all have those...
I've had a few lately....
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Wed 02/24/10 06:16 PM
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Hi Jayne and Carold
Jayne, sorry about the letter...that sucks!
Carol..you should see the saloon...it's all coming together now!
I know Bill, just haven't had time to go shopping!
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Wed 02/24/10 06:17 PM
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Hi Vivian, Jan, Bill and Tim. Just wanted to say hi but I'm not staying long. It has been a bad day. Brian got a rejection letter from the college he wants to go to and won't talk to me
give him his space, I know as a mom you want to fix things but guys need space at times
Thanks Tim. I know. He went slamming out of here. I know he needs his space but I am just afraid that he is going to just let the next 3 months of school go downhill and not graduate. My son Jimmy said he will talk to him so I will let him handle it. It's just really hard. His father is no help when it comes to education
you can talk to him next week when he calms down, just let him know your there when he's ready with out being pushy
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Wed 02/24/10 06:19 PM
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Hi Vivian, Jan, Bill and Tim. Just wanted to say hi but I'm not staying long. It has been a bad day. Brian got a rejection letter from the college he wants to go to and won't talk to me
give him his space, I know as a mom you want to fix things but guys need space at times
Thanks Tim. I know. He went slamming out of here. I know he needs his space but I am just afraid that he is going to just let the next 3 months of school go downhill and not graduate. My son Jimmy said he will talk to him so I will let him handle it. It's just really hard. His father is no help when it comes to education
you can talk to him next week when he calms down, just let him know your there when he's ready with out being pushy
Good advice. Thanks. I'm just dreading the next couple of days because we are getting another foot of snow and we will be stuck in the house together
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Wed 02/24/10 06:20 PM
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Hi Jayne and Carold
Jayne, sorry about the letter...that sucks!
Carol..you should see the saloon...it's all coming together now!
I know Bill, just haven't had time to go shopping!
Zicam works for me. Takes away the cold symptoms so you can function
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Wed 02/24/10 06:20 PM
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Hi Vivian, Jan, Bill and Tim. Just wanted to say hi but I'm not staying long. It has been a bad day. Brian got a rejection letter from the college he wants to go to and won't talk to me
give him his space, I know as a mom you want to fix things but guys need space at times
Thanks Tim. I know. He went slamming out of here. I know he needs his space but I am just afraid that he is going to just let the next 3 months of school go downhill and not graduate. My son Jimmy said he will talk to him so I will let him handle it. It's just really hard. His father is no help when it comes to education
you can talk to him next week when he calms down, just let him know your there when he's ready with out being pushy
Good advice. Thanks. I'm just dreading the next couple of days because we are getting another foot of snow and we will be stuck in the house together
look at the bright side.... you could be stuck in a house with me
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Wed 02/24/10 06:20 PM
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It's tough to face rejection at that age, but he'll get over it.
Like Tim said just be there when he decides to talk.
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Wed 02/24/10 06:20 PM
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AHHHH-CHOOOOOO Oh excuse me! anyone here?
I'm Back
Did I miss something Tim
Nope, when its safe to say I may tell ya... tell then Im keeping my mouth shut
sound like a plan.
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Wed 02/24/10 06:20 PM
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Evening all!
Tim, better to be pissed off than pissed on....
Jayne, hard lesson to learn, rejection....just be there when he is ready to talk...he's probably really embarrassed too and trying to save face...easier to act mad when you're a guy than to appear crushed....least that's how my 4 boys and hubby acted. JMO
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Wed 02/24/10 06:21 PM
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Today was so bad between Brian and my husband pulling crap that I am actually having a scotch and water now and I NEVER drink alone!!!
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Wed 02/24/10 06:22 PM
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hi Mary
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Wed 02/24/10 06:22 PM
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Hi Vivian, Jan, Bill and Tim. Just wanted to say hi but I'm not staying long. It has been a bad day. Brian got a rejection letter from the college he wants to go to and won't talk to me
give him his space, I know as a mom you want to fix things but guys need space at times
Thanks Tim. I know. He went slamming out of here. I know he needs his space but I am just afraid that he is going to just let the next 3 months of school go downhill and not graduate. My son Jimmy said he will talk to him so I will let him handle it. It's just really hard. His father is no help when it comes to education
you can talk to him next week when he calms down, just let him know your there when he's ready with out being pushy
Good advice. Thanks. I'm just dreading the next couple of days because we are getting another foot of snow and we will be stuck in the house together
look at the bright side.... you could be stuck in a house with me
That might not be so bad cause you cook
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Wed 02/24/10 06:22 PM
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Today was so bad between Brian and my husband pulling crap that I am actually having a scotch and water now and I NEVER drink alone!!!
OK let me mix a drink BV and coke coming up
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Wed 02/24/10 06:23 PM
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It's tough to face rejection at that age, but he'll get over it.
Like Tim said just be there when he decides to talk.
I will and having lived in a house of men I know to just leave them alone.
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Wed 02/24/10 06:23 PM
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Today was so bad between Brian and my husband pulling crap that I am actually having a scotch and water now and I NEVER drink alone!!!
Hell, I set sail with Captain Morgan the other day all alone...
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Wed 02/24/10 06:24 PM
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Hi Jayne and Carold
Jayne, sorry about the letter...that sucks!
Carol..you should see the saloon...it's all coming together now!
I know Bill, just haven't had time to go shopping!
I bet. I read there keeping you busy with other things.
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Wed 02/24/10 06:25 PM
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Hi Vivian, Jan, Bill and Tim. Just wanted to say hi but I'm not staying long. It has been a bad day. Brian got a rejection letter from the college he wants to go to and won't talk to me
give him his space, I know as a mom you want to fix things but guys need space at times
Thanks Tim. I know. He went slamming out of here. I know he needs his space but I am just afraid that he is going to just let the next 3 months of school go downhill and not graduate. My son Jimmy said he will talk to him so I will let him handle it. It's just really hard. His father is no help when it comes to education
you can talk to him next week when he calms down, just let him know your there when he's ready with out being pushy
Good advice. Thanks. I'm just dreading the next couple of days because we are getting another foot of snow and we will be stuck in the house together
That sucks for both of you....
All the advice the others gave you is great....but still the problem remains for now...
What are the other college options for his desired major? Are any of them do-able?
Good luck, Mom...
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Wed 02/24/10 06:26 PM
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Evening all!
Tim, better to be pissed off than pissed on....
Jayne, hard lesson to learn, rejection....just be there when he is ready to talk...he's probably really embarrassed too and trying to save face...easier to act mad when you're a guy than to appear crushed....least that's how my 4 boys and hubby acted. JMO
Hi Mary. Oh that is so true! And I know he will listen to Jimmy more than me about this stuff. Jimmy was sweet today. He said "Mom you got enough to worry about. I will talk to Brian and we will work out another plan. Don't even think about it" I love that my son is so grown up now!!
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