Well...anyone who wants a serious long relationship and to find someone to grow old with has some sort of a criteria of who could be considered. Anyone who doesn't have some sort of a range of qualifications that the other must meet, most likely isn't really looking for a serious relationship.



I'm not looking planet wide, my question was asked on this site alone. Unless you suggest the entire population of the planet has an account on mingle 2.

nope...but I am sure that with those numbers....still, chances are

I think I fit a criteria is the rarest on mingle2. A 30 something year old guy with no kids and never been married.
Just my personal observation.

OK, that's rare, I'll have to agree with you!

But try being a guy here, looking for a woman with no kids, and who doesn't drink! Im-freakin-possible!

You're right. There aren't that many these days that are around our age, have never been married and have no kids.

I also noticed a lack of activity or interest of those who are below 34 lately. I think I can count on one hand how many women who were below 34 has contacted me over a year. Regardless of divorced or never married, kids no kids..there aren't many.

There have actually been men who have asked me what's wrong with me for not having been married by now and not having any children.

so yeah, really, what IS wrong with you lmao
some ppl are idiots

It's once-a-week thing for me (I got used to it) for the past 5-6 years now, somehow they find this incredible or they think I'm BSing them. Then I get the suspicion of whether or not I'm gay or missing some vital organs or maybe if I'm sick in the head.

Basically it boils down to that the only reason I am not married is

1.I'm a psycho
2. I'm missing something between my legs
3. I might be gay
4. I am lying, I was (or I am) probably married and have kids

Never once someone guessed that:

1. My bad luck of not finding anyone
2. Lack of interest towards me from the other sex
3. Had several relationships which made me very cautious
4. The circumstances that I worked the last 5 years a "man's job" ~ contractor who works by himself for mostly elderly people (fixing up houses etc)
5. I rarely hanged out in bars (not that i want to pick up women from there)
6. Lack of single women (20-40yrs old) who is looking for someone new, in my close vicinity.

not 34 however i am 3o and i have never been married and have no children. i do know what you mean by not being contacted by people around your age. I get men in their late 40s to 60 emailing me. I have tried emailing and have tried someone not much on the forums here. but i have also gone outside of this site now. not many people around where i live lol.

never give up hope

I just haven't found the right person yet. That's all. If someone sees that as being a problem, they're obviously not going to be the right person.

Looking is all in the lookers mind..

I could say,,,yeah sure,,where is the lady who is thirty five to forty five, who wants a life long mate to possibly be looking for that??
Or I could just NOT put my self into an OUT-CASTED way of VIEWING ME...

Hi,,,single dude here,,just looking to find maybe someone who likes men...

Just turned 40. Never married. One child. Although, she's 18 so no longer a child.

guess iam out on this one as well...

46, never married and no kids! I do not smoke and have never been drunk. I am not really concern on what people may say, but many of my married friends congratulate me!
When I get to see a woman on my vicinity worth chasing I will strike. In the mean time I just continue on at peace with my friends and family.

Everybody has a certain criteria....and we all have our challenges.
I would think being younger and not having any kids would make it some what easier. Maybe not..

Try being a 49 year old woman with kids, that doesn't drink and won't date a man who doesn't have a spiritual edge..

I am 36.
I have been married.
I have no kids.

I am soooooo freaking cute and dateable, but I only date sluts.

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Slut

i was married at 20.. all the rest came later

Lori!