How do you know if its "real"? I have thought that i was in love before
and it just turned into a horrible marriage. I dont want to make that
mistake again so how do you truly know? I mean, I have had people tell
me...when its real you know...well, I dont know if I will or not.

Help!!!

am sorry to say love dont just happen over night before you go in a
relationship first find a friend try to understand that personthen when
you understand how that person operate then you decide if you want to
take it to the next level love is something that grow with
relationshipso dont say you are in love say you found a friend and when
you find a friend then you will fine love.

Believe in yourself, baby. Realize the mistakes made at first, knowing
you will not make that one again. Then, what we all tend to struggle
with, patience.

well who we tlkin about for starters!!!
you feel so good inside and smile constantly
and get really excited!!!!!!!!

oh one more thing trust me you will know when you are in love::
its kinda hard to explain well for me it!!!

I don't think that there is any "possible" way of knowing that it's
real...until it simply "IS"...

KIMMY WHAT IS LOVE? LOVE IS NOT WHEN YOU MEET SOME ONE AND YOU FEAL THAT
THINGLING SENSATION RUNNING THROUGHYOUR BOBY THAH IS BLUSHING.

thanks everyone...and kimmy...its not who you are thinking about...


i have this guy that i have been talkin to for a while..and it just
feels like there is something there...he doesnt even live in my
state...but there is a closeness there that i have never felt
before...guess you just need time to connect.

Do you think that you can meet your soulmate online? Even if he lives
in a totally different time zone?

mhy guess is

if ya gotta ask

it isn't

but hey what do i know

Do you want to be with him ALL THE TIME?
Do you want to feel his arms around you ALL THE TIME?
Do you long to see his eyes?
Do you when apart want to be on the phone with him "FOREVER"???
Do you think of him as YOUR MAN for LIFE????
Do you KNOW HE FEELS the same way towards YOU?
Do you think you could or would die for him to LIVE??
Do you Dream of him often?

If you answered yes to all of these then you just want to get him into
bed!!!!

Just kidding,,,,but to be REAL,,,THE ABOVE DOES NOT MAKE YOU INLOVE, its
a good START, but alot more than just THIS,,,to really be and feel and
KNOW your in-love with him.
Then YOU HAVE to take in ALL of HIS thoughts and FEELINGS to...
So NO REAL ANSWER ofr you,,,but just go slow and get to REALLY know each
other before you THINK love, you should always, FEEL LOVE!!
I wish you BOTH happiness and finding each others truth and
hearts!!!

wow iam4u...what a response...thank you!

ok sorry jharter but it does sound like ur
inlove:::::::all my wishes!!!

oh kimmy its fine...i just wanted you to know that it wasnt him!


Im not sure what this is but its going to be amazing finding out!

Remember to listen to each other
Remember to communicate with each other
Remember to grow together instead of apart
Remember to compromise


Those things help a relationship stay on the right track.

Good luck