ladies,
say that you have a date with a man next week,
but the man you'll be seeing has to go to arizona on business.
it's only going to be a 2 or 3 day trip,1 for the meeting and 2 for a little adventure,and says that he want's to bring you with him.
what would you think?.
would you go with him,or think that he was asking to much to soon.

Too much too soon.

Waaay too soon...unless we have been talking for months on the phone daily only because we are long distance. If I have never met you, I would not travel with you.

Honesty that all depends on the situation and how long you have been talking to them ect. Hell I have flown a few states away to meet someone so that would not be much different as long as the sleeping arrangements have been made like separate quarters.

But if we have not talked much at all then nope I would not go.

How long have I known him? How long have we been dating?

great words from the wise..
to be honest the only thing that the man knows that they share in common is their undying love for the game of golf.lol
he figured perhaps his lady friend would like to accompany him.

instead of asking her im assuming he'll do the intelligent thing and see her upon his return.
if the guy was around im sure he'd thank you very much for the advice,so i'll thank you ladies for him lol.
thanks

not very long really..they chatted on plentyoffish and chatted on msn for a little while but thats about all..im figuring lol

Probably would just meet when we have agreed to meet. In my situation, I am unable to make major changes in my schedule due to classes and my son.

And it probably would be too soon to travel together... it would make me a little nervous to be meeting someone not on my own turf... best to just wait until the agreed upon meeting.

it was actually their combined knowledge of the game of golf that made their conversations grow.
and maybe a little bit more then a small amount of need to impress his new friend.
sheeee..what do you expect he's a guy lol

the plans for their meeting was tuesday evening and seeing that thats when he had to leave i figured maybe she might want to be impressed.

then again,this guy has been raised with the stong hand of an italian father,rule number one above all else is respect for the woman.so she would have nothing to be weary of.then again she doesnt know that.
thanks

Then no, it's too much too soon.

I think it depends on the Tee Time and what Golf Course he plans to play in Arizona. Now if he were to say he has a tee time to play Dinosaur Mountain at 10 am Tuesday, she would be CRAZY not to take him up on his offer!!

seeing that this will be my first trip to arizona,i have no idea about where i can even play.lol.
but there must be some public courses there,they can't all be private
and you have a point as well,i mean where else can people play golf in winter lol

well..i guess she'll have to wait until spring like everyone else..hmmm my titlest forged's 690's are going to have a field day.lol

thanks man

Dude, there are more Public Golf Courses in Phoenix then there are McDonald's restarants. I live in an area surrounded by them!

Arizona is Golf Heaven in the winter! It is sunny and 71 degrees here today!

Here is a link to help you find a course and a tee time. I use it all the time.

http://www.golfnow.com/phoenix

If I was younger and single, I might do it, but Id have some of my brothers friends( he is an ex seal) do some checking around and I would get LOTS of personal information. AS a forty year old mother of two, however, I wouldnt steal away from my kids so soon into a relationship.

thanks for the link up friend.
im not going anywhere near pheonix however but im sure that after the meeting with mbi i will be exploring.

i predict no sleep for this guy until my 72 hours are done.opertunaties like these for me are rare.
thanks for the opinion to miss harnony,that navy seals info there would scare the crap out of anyone who would even dare to try something unwarrented with you..but then no self respecting italian who respects the ladies ever would.lol

but its nice to know that if you were younger you might consider taking a chance,after all whats life without risks..healthy one that it.

you all take care

I'd go just to get out of the cold for a minute....

To soon, explain your situation and stay in contact. If she wants YOU, she will wait.

There is alot of sand to get buried in down there.....

Too soon, and I can't just pack and run, personally. Animals to take care of!

"Red flag" thts weird ...

Ummm reschedulng would be better unless the chics weirded out by now 2 which the guy shouldnt expect 2 hear frm her again lol