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Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:38 PM
Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.

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Thu 01/07/10 02:40 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Yeah, I can totally identify with what you're feeling. I've felt the same way for about the last year now.

FETTS61's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:41 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


quite often in fact. youre not alone, no pun intendsdflowerforyou

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:41 PM
M, I've missed you and hope you are well. I've felt that way and worse unfortunately. Like I can't find the positive no matter how hard I try.

And then just breath. In and out. Look around you, really look. Find the things that make you smile. Search your mind for that one memory that always brings a smile to your face and warms your heart.

Now breath again. Some days that's really all we can do.

flowers

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:41 PM


Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Yeah, I can totally identify with what you're feeling. I've felt the same way for about the last year now.


Maybe not for a year, but definitely for a while. I don't think I like it.

Karma_09's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:42 PM
oh yes....i think most of us have had one of those days, weeks, months, years...when love seems beyond our reach. And as we watch it chase after some, we wonder why it never seems to come after us. We think why should i even bother trying to find love...maybe all I really need is a good boink. Surely that will make me feel better, but then it only serves to make you feel even more alone, more vulnerable, more unworthy.

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Thu 01/07/10 02:43 PM



Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Yeah, I can totally identify with what you're feeling. I've felt the same way for about the last year now.


Maybe not for a year, but definitely for a while. I don't think I like it.


Me neither. The sad part is that there isn't a damn thing I can do about it. I figure I'll get used to it, sooner or later.


Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:44 PM

M, I've missed you and hope you are well. I've felt that way and worse unfortunately. Like I can't find the positive no matter how hard I try.

And then just breath. In and out. Look around you, really look. Find the things that make you smile. Search your mind for that one memory that always brings a smile to your face and warms your heart.

Now breath again. Some days that's really all we can do.

flowers


Thank you Chrissy, that sounds like a very good idea. I have missed you all as well. I guess this past year is just catching up to me finally. Instead of running from it anymore, I am going to just turn around and face it so then it can pass.

newarkjw's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:45 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Very often......flowerforyou

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:46 PM
Thank you guys for the kind words and indulging me. I know it will eventually pass, I am just so tired.

MeChrissy2's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:47 PM


M, I've missed you and hope you are well. I've felt that way and worse unfortunately. Like I can't find the positive no matter how hard I try.

And then just breath. In and out. Look around you, really look. Find the things that make you smile. Search your mind for that one memory that always brings a smile to your face and warms your heart.

Now breath again. Some days that's really all we can do.

flowers


Thank you Chrissy, that sounds like a very good idea. I have missed you all as well. I guess this past year is just catching up to me finally. Instead of running from it anymore, I am going to just turn around and face it so then it can pass.


M, that is a very good decision and not a very easy one to make. Accepting something you know will be painful takes guts. You will get past it. Email me anytime if you need an ear, a laugh, a friend or just need a shoulder to cry on.

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:47 PM

oh yes....i think most of us have had one of those days, weeks, months, years...when love seems beyond our reach. And as we watch it chase after some, we wonder why it never seems to come after us. We think why should i even bother trying to find love...maybe all I really need is a good boink. Surely that will make me feel better, but then it only serves to make you feel even more alone, more vulnerable, more unworthy.


I don't think I could have said it any better if I had tried...and I did. Thank you, Karma flowerforyou

Quietman_2009's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:47 PM
everybody feels that way from time to time

I do often. I get tired of being sick all the time and having to have dialysis to keeo me alive and want to give up on it all and let the kidney failure take me down once and for all

but you can't allow that to become the defining thing of your life. you have to make a concious decision to not let it get you down and keep moving

newarkjw's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:48 PM

Thank you guys for the kind words and indulging me. I know it will eventually pass, I am just so tired.


Listening to some music always helps me out of a funk.....smokin

Rob_T's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:48 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


me too. only a liitle today, not yesterday, a lot on new years eve! I looked at your profile, and am experiencing some of the same things in my life. I think a lot of the "blues" just have to do with winter, not as much sunshine and fresh air. A little flirting around the boards helps cheer me up! Keep your chin up, there's good things yet to come. I'm certain!flowers

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:48 PM



M, I've missed you and hope you are well. I've felt that way and worse unfortunately. Like I can't find the positive no matter how hard I try.

And then just breath. In and out. Look around you, really look. Find the things that make you smile. Search your mind for that one memory that always brings a smile to your face and warms your heart.

Now breath again. Some days that's really all we can do.

flowers


Thank you Chrissy, that sounds like a very good idea. I have missed you all as well. I guess this past year is just catching up to me finally. Instead of running from it anymore, I am going to just turn around and face it so then it can pass.


M, that is a very good decision and not a very easy one to make. Accepting something you know will be painful takes guts. You will get past it. Email me anytime if you need an ear, a laugh, a friend or just need a shoulder to cry on.


Thank you so much

redhead44613's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:56 PM
everyday.. brokenheart

SkyBlueEyedGuy's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:59 PM
Gosh it sounds like you got it bad today! I just wrote a little blurb to you even before I read this question, and my answer is for sure! Life is just too much sometimes but then it passes and suddenly the world is fantastic again, if you ever need to vent or just want a friend to bounce stuff off, send me a message!

Marek

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:59 PM


Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


me too. only a liitle today, not yesterday, a lot on new years eve! I looked at your profile, and am experiencing some of the same things in my life. I think a lot of the "blues" just have to do with winter, not as much sunshine and fresh air. A little flirting around the boards helps cheer me up! Keep your chin up, there's good things yet to come. I'm certain!flowers


Thank you, Rob

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:59 PM

everyday.. brokenheart


flowerforyou

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