That says it! Emailing can be like a motorized toy stuck in a corner. After a ga-billion emails I talked with a man on the phone a katrillion times. We met and kissed and talked and cuddled. Eventually, I learned he was married. So, there ya go.

I have only ever met one from here and we are friends...I would love to meet more, very limited options in my town. I did come on here in the beginning for dating...

I'd love to meet up with my gal pals in the sistahood also...

I have met some,,and personally.
I would never meet anyone from here,,unless we have already talked by phone first..THAT away,,if their just playing,,,I will at LEAST know they our real about their gender,lol,and it lets me HEAR through their words on if their straight-up with really wanting to meet me...
I tell every lady I have ever spoke to here,,,that IF THEY are going to do THIS,,live in-person meeting with a guy,,,to let SOMEONE know where,and who,whats their real name is..and maybe,,,if THEY can,,,,,Have a friend go with them to first meet up with them..
That away,,there can be no issues as to your safety....
And if I was to meet someone new from here,,,IF THEY had a friend with THEM,,,COLL,,that wouldn't bother me at ALL...wink,.Just so ya know if I can be like THAT,,,,MOST should agree...

I have only met one person from this site and it was just as friends and we had spoken on here for months if not longer. He lived in another state.

That reminds me I haven't heard from him in a bit better write him or call him.

I've only met one person here that I went on several dates with. Distance got in the way, though. We had known each other for a long time before meeting, as we lived quite a far distance from each other. We got to know each other via email, im and phone first.

I've met four others just as friends.

I have met two people from online.

The first we e-mailed for a month and than started talking on the phone for about two months. We met and dated a year.

The second we talked via e-mail for about three or four months before exchanging phone numbers. We talked a couple of times and decided to meet.

I think it all depends on the conversation and if you get that feeling that you want to meet. I'd rather take my time and chat awhile before even talking about meeting. That way you can weed out the ones who really only want down your panties.

I have meet several people from Mingle but only 1 for dating and 3 from another site.....

Before meeting we talked for several months via emails, phones calls and im's first.

I agree that each situation and person is different. The person I met from here was the same in person as he is in real life Actually have been dating him for several months, yes the distance gets in the way, so does our work schedules but I think he is worth the waiting We talk everyday and most importantly he makes me laugh.

Guess I lucked out cuz I think he is one of the good guys