Topic: Would you date someone still living with their ex? | |
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Say someone is legally divorced but they are still living with their ex-wife/husband would you still date them?
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I went out with a girl who lived with her ex boyfriend, they had been together for 8 yrs and just broken up for about 6 months.It didn't help that she told me he frequently asked her if she thought they would ever get back together. It felt totally uncomfortable and I bailed after a couple of dates.
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I went out with a girl who lived with her ex boyfriend, they had been together for 8 yrs and just broken up for about 6 months.It didn't help that she told me he frequently asked her if she thought they would ever get back together. It felt totally uncomfortable and I bailed after a couple of dates. I don't think I'd have made it to a second one |
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no
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Edited by
MiVidaLoca
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Wed 01/06/10 07:49 AM
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I didn't know until the second date. She introduced him as her room mate at first and then dropped the bomb on the second date, thats when I bailed.
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I didn't know until the second date. She introduced him as her room mate at first and then dropped the bomb on the second date, thats when I bailed. good choice! |
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No, that's just asking for problems.
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Edited by
BL4766
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Wed 01/06/10 08:07 AM
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NO!!!!!
MY first thought would be......are they HOPING to get back with them????? I would certainly question as to WHY they are still living with them!! It kinda tells me they dont know what they really WANT! |
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I've asked this before but why can't people finish one relationship before involving other people? If a person is still living with a former partner, then who the f@ck told them they should be dating? Really? That's not at all awkward when you bring the date home? Anyone getting involved in such a situation deserves what they get...on both sides.
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No and hell no!
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Absolutely and positively no.
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Let me think....Hell Noooo |
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Hell no
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Been there and done that...all I can say is that it hurt when it did not work out for us. Once she saw that he was moving on, she played the ace (of hearts) and how can you fight the history they shared. Hard enough when two people live apart - almost impossible if they are under the same roof. So no, never again.
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I use to work with a guy that lived with his Ex wife and her new husband, I guess different strokes for different folks,
Theres just no way I could do it, |
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If they could show me the divorce papers,,yes,,,but never at their home.
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Edited by
Moblodite
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Wed 01/06/10 09:41 AM
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Heck, I live alone, but I will still show you the divorce papers if ya want!!
Should I snail mail it, fax, digital or just bring them along on a first date?? I can also bring the papers that I am current on my shots |
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That's a huge " NO"
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I've asked this before but why can't people finish one relationship before involving other people? If a person is still living with a former partner, then who the f@ck told them they should be dating? Really? That's not at all awkward when you bring the date home? Anyone getting involved in such a situation deserves what they get...on both sides. where one lives is not necessarily indicative of whom one is DATING. IT would be awkward to date at the home you share but otherwise many people invest good money to have a home and shouldnt have to choose between marriage or moving out,,if they are mature. |
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this is the odds game
what are the odds of them getting drunk and bumping uglies:9 out of 10. the reason i typed 9 instead of 10 the guy may not have been able to get it up cause he was to drunk |
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