Topic: Time & Marriage
Shaggy59's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:00 PM

Not at my age, looking forward to collecting my dead wife's Social Security. Can't remarry till after 60, or I don't get it.


Wow, I never knew the restrictions on that. Interesting food for thought

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:03 PM

1 day if meant to be


youve always been a little premature:tongue:

Shaggy59's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:04 PM


Whens too soon? Anything before 16 months?

Dont tell the girls this...theyll know when you'll pop the big Q


I once chased a girl for a little over 2 years. 4 months into the relationship, she got my last name tattooed down her side from her bra line, to her waist. I proposed the next week thinking "this is it". WAAAY too soon, too fast. A life time is worth waiting for. Make sure the family thinks of them as "one of their own" and the same for you and their family before marriage too.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:04 PM


1 day if meant to be


youve always been a little premature:tongue:


scared who've you been talking to?

Shaggy59's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:04 PM


1 day if meant to be


youve always been a little premature:tongue:


HAHAHA i think i just pee'd a little

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:15 PM
In my book there is no set time you just know. I had only dated my ex less then 3 months and we were married for 11 years. Sure it did not last a lifetime but I learned more and was given more in those 11 years then anyone else has been able to top.

I'm a true believer in going with your heart.........:heart:

And yeah I believe in love at first site as well. bigsmile

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:17 PM
4pm

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:19 PM

4pm


Shshsh it is 4:13pm here ya running late laugh laugh

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:30 PM



1 day if meant to be


youve always been a little premature:tongue:


scared who've you been talking to?


My people know you're people...I'm kind of a big deal.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:32 PM




1 day if meant to be


youve always been a little premature:tongue:


scared who've you been talking to?


My people know you're people...I'm kind of a big deal.


the latter is the "fib" I STARTED with

oldsage's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:36 PM


Not at my age, looking forward to collecting my dead wife's Social Security. Can't remarry till after 60, or I don't get it.


Wow, I never knew the restrictions on that. Interesting food for thought


I know several ladies that waited till after 60 to get remarried.
Collecting dead hubbie's SS, so if this doesn't work, they can still live. An important consideration.

morgannicole's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:37 PM
Idk. I was engaged once (yes I'm young I don't want to hear crap about that) after eight months, and we were planning on getting married on his leave from boot camp. Boot changed him and I in different ways, and we were completely different people.

I know one person who proposed to his girlfriend after two weeks. They're getting married next month.

My mom and dad got married after nine months of dating/knowing each other. They've been married for almost 21 years.

I have a friend who's been dating her boyfriend for three years. He's about to propose.

It's different for every single couple. (:

no photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:37 PM

when I met my ex-wife 12 years ago I fell in love immediately. Had to really conquer her. But then there was our first tender kiss. I asked her to marry me after a month. I was convinced she was the love of my life; my princess.

And here I am: recently divorced...



Similar situation happened to me. We met and a few months later were married. Lasted 12 years. Must be something about getting to the 13th year.

The_Unforgiven's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:38 PM
It Shouldn't Matter As Long As Ur In Love Not Lust. (There Is A Diffrence Believe It Or Not, Learned That From The Mother Of My Child).

no photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:41 PM


when I met my ex-wife 12 years ago I fell in love immediately. Had to really conquer her. But then there was our first tender kiss. I asked her to marry me after a month. I was convinced she was the love of my life; my princess.

And here I am: recently divorced...



Similar situation happened to me. We met and a few months later were married. Lasted 12 years. Must be something about getting to the 13th year.

I had a good 12 years (most of them anyway) and I cherish the memories. I hope you feel the same way?

no photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:44 PM



when I met my ex-wife 12 years ago I fell in love immediately. Had to really conquer her. But then there was our first tender kiss. I asked her to marry me after a month. I was convinced she was the love of my life; my princess.

And here I am: recently divorced...



Similar situation happened to me. We met and a few months later were married. Lasted 12 years. Must be something about getting to the 13th year.

I had a good 12 years (most of them anyway) and I cherish the memories. I hope you feel the same way?


Getting there. I didn't cherish much the first 2 years after the divorce (cheating). I have worked through it. Glad you have good memories!

LewisW123's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:45 PM

Ive been with my guy over a year now and I cant ever imagine him not in my life.


Well, YOU'RE ready.

I would say, if he is about the same age as you, and he doesn't feel the same way, sometime in the next 12 months - it ain't gonna happen.

Let him tell you, tho.

no photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:49 PM

When is the proper amount of time a couple must be together before tying the knot?


Your opinion plz...
When you both have tried living with each other for about six months,,,IF THAT WORKS......Your married,,,,wink,lol
Thats my real thoughts as to if YOU were looking for some kind of insight as to HOW do you know your BOTH ready and up to making you guys work and be happy forever,,,THATS my how...:wink: drinker

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:52 PM
well we have been living together for almost a year now and we get along great

Shaggy59's photo
Sat 12/26/09 02:56 PM

well we have been living together for almost a year now and we get along great


go for it, i would