Some people have been here for years and haven't had one single date. Try the real world, you might have better luck. Cheers.

...let me get this ..you joined three days ago and you're upset you havent had a date..in that case..i should be really PISSED...

Wow, I put the zip code for your city, 48848, ages 35-45 within 100 miles and it comes back with 400 matches.
Heck, with 50 miles you get 175 matches.

Must be your approach.

I just joined tonight and got a "nudge". Maybe you need more pictures or to change your approach.

hot dang, we're supposed to get a date right away?

that means I've been..... DOING IT WRONG.. EPIC FAIL...

I'm winning 'cause I don't want any...woot woot!!!

Oh yeah that too!

wow...those are some pretty good numbers there, maybe your trying to hard, or maybe not enough. Just relax, be yourself..
actually don't do that, being myself hasn't helped me at all..yep, be someone else!

Hello and Good Luck

All I can add to this is you get out of it what you put into it. Communication and be involved helps.If your sitting waiting for mail, thats not going to happen.If you want mail you have to send some out...but not all will reply, so you have to deal with that as well.Join the forums here, you will truly get an idea of the locals here.
Also try your mutual matches...and yes I look at mine and I have many, and say to myself uhh you got to be kidding on some,lol.Ok so mutuals are not as they are cracked up to be....

Have fun, your such a newbie....

Just because this is a "dating" site does not mean it is any easier to get dates. You still have to put in work to find that "special" someone and nothing is guaranteed.

Look at it this way; when you first meet someone do you automatically start the conversation with the way you start the e-mails? No, probably not...I'm beginning to think a lot of people are a joke here. If I meet a girl on the street and the first conversation we have is "I like the color red, walks in the park, staring at sunsets" or whatever blahblah junk you use...I think she would run from me, or possibly call the cops.

Quit thinking everything is going to be handed to you on a silver platter...

Simple, ladies like to know the guys they date.
GET KNOWN & be a gentleman.

HAHAHA jokes on you.....

Is this your first website dating hopes? Your pic is fine. Look at your profile and complete it while sounding conversational. Like Lotto, some people are "lucky." You might be fortunate. Take time and work on yourself separately but open the door a few times a week and look to see who is interested. Post and read the Community Boards. People will see you!
After an end to a relationship, I stayed online and have dated from a few sites. As the movie reminded me, the online persona is an "avatar." Use your common sense.

Good luck and happy holidays!

Let's see ... 1 post

Try looking at your entry and pic here,,,NOW,,right below THAT,,,see the number 1......

THATS the real issue as to WHY you have had NO-DATES!

Hello,,dude, please...its like getting a chick to give you a random phone-call to ask you out?

If YOUR not ADVERTISING,,,,no-one, will even LOOK at YOU, let alone
want to date you....?

Post a LOT,,,,TALK or TYPE,,,a LOT on here and GIVE THIS PLACE A REAL TRY......your fate as for finding someone is ALL,,,in your abilities to have THEM,,,,SEE YOU!

Good luck,,and Merry Christmas....

I can vouch for that!



Of course, eHarmony TOLD me I was unmatchable....

lol,,,clever

Eharmony is like the nightmare that never ends.

Yeah, I've never done well with faith-based initiatives....

Ummm.....me too..lol