Is there such a thing as gay/lesbian district? HMM I had no clue?!?
No I think you should be thankful that this person was totally honest with you. They could have let you develop feelings for them and then let you find out on your own..IF you know what I mean!! Obviously, you had to think this person was attractive from the way you described her body...she was HOT!!
I think people need to slow down on everything, everyone just jumps right in to things and you never know what you are getting into!!

Oh good, now I know how to get undesirable men from repeatedly viewing my profile. I'm tell them I'm really a man. My god, why didn't I think of this before??????

I LUV U!

Agreed! All people deserve respect by referring to them properly.

It didn't turn out the way you wished. Your date was honest. It's not that traumatic; move on.

I wuv you too!!!

I know! I was just blocking them but know I can say I am really a _________ (fill in the blank) man, cat, camel or peacock!!

Same here, my block list is a mile long, but with good ole Charlie over there, maybe I can get some peace.

I should try that next time I meet a guy I find icky....."sorry, we have too much in common, I, too, have a wee wee."

Ya try it!

I have to shake my head on this.

While I understand this is not and experience that a lot of people would understand I am really sad to here that the OP decides to handle this experience as he has.

Not so much that he would hang up from surprise but that he finds it necessary to stoop to calling offensive names for someone telling him the truth after what was clearly only a meet and greet date.

I sincerly doubt that after your description of this PERSON that she "forced" you to kiss her.

While I think it is tacky to pretend an identity that a person does not have it is rather humorous that this PERSON probably picked up on your lusty reaction and may in fact have tricked you into beleiveing something untrue.

I will say that when people identify their true gender identity and begin pursueing it they can be quite appealing to the opposite gender because they want that identity and do what they can to make it bloom from thier inner personality.

I think trying to pin a gender identity on a neighborhood is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. People of all genders live in all kinds of neighborhood.

I'm glad you took the words right out of my mouth. I think you said them better than I could have.

I would have noticed it in a minute; and be relaxed about it

First of all, what could happen in a 5 min meeting?

Second of all, at least he/she was honest with you.

So you made a great friend. Nothing wrong with that.

couldn't agree more. It's all about honesty.

Maybe he fell in lurve in 5 minutes.

Shux, I never thought of that...

be grateful she told you and it went no further than a kiss

imagine if you "guys" did it

that is not to say some people wouldn't be okay with it, but i think that would be a very small minority of people, not everyone is open minded to these sorts of things and it doesn't sound like you are either

I would have questioned "WHAT" they had showed as their SEX,,,on that site,,male or female...and THEN if they SHOWED NOT WHAT THEY WERE,,,I would have told them NOT TO LIE.
If they SHOWED it right and YOU didn't catch it,,I WOULD READ LONGER AND BETTER,lol.
If he told you that AFTER making a date with you,,I would have told him,,HE COULD HAVE TOLD ME THAT "THEN"...not for me to wait and find out last minute...but it is a scary world now that we live as to even have to NOT KNOW THEIR GENDER?????
And THEN,,,lets say that HE didn't tell you,,and you went on this date,,,and sometime through the night he kisses you and plays with you,,,NOW,,,YOU FIND THAT OUT,,,and GO AND HIT HIM,,and leave him
wherever your at,,,,,as with the new laws protecting HIM,,,

HE CAN PRESS CHARGES AGAINST YOU and you can spend five to ten years
in prison for hitting him.... AMERICA,,,,don't ya just love-it.

Then you do, indeed, have " something against " them.

That statement is like saying " Hey..I have nothing against gay people, but they might come on to me. "

Trust me, dude. Gay guys know the difference between a straight guy and a gay guy. They will refrain from " hitting on " the straight guys because they know there are people like you who would have their manhood insulted and wind up probably being violent about it.

As far as the transgender you met...she < which is what the person chose to present herself as > was honest and let you know.

She deserves better than to have someone badmouthing her for it. It shows a depth of character that a lot of " straight/normal " people don't possess.